agree or disagree?

I've never had a baby shower.

But I think it's silly to think a mother should only have one. You can ALWAYS use things. You don't stop needing help just because it's a second (or third, fourth) child. Plus, baby showers are one of the only 'fun' times a pregnant woman gets. I think it's fine to have one with each pregnancy.

No!  Every baby should be celebrated!  Both of mine were!  ;)

that's how i feel. no baby is more important than the other. its about celebrating life (and expecting momma's have a day deticated to them) :]

Quoting mommyofblueyes:

No!  Every baby should be celebrated!  Both of mine were!  ;)

Ive had one for both girls.

http://thestir.cafemom.com/baby/132757/memo_to_greedy_moms_your?utm_medium=sm&utm_source=facebook&utm_content=babies_fanpage just found this. lol

I don't think that you should have big, get me everything that I want showers for more than the first one, but every baby deserves a celebration!

every baby deserves to be celebrated ;)

if you want to see the link copy and paste into your browser. minus the "just found this" lol

This is how.i feel about myself.
I don't care what others do

Quoting Dragonmamas:

I don't think that you should have big, get me everything that I want showers for more than the first one, but every baby deserves a celebration!

yeah like my first baby shower was pretty big but if i have a second child its going to be more laid back. i have a boy now, but if i ever have a girl idk, that bby shower might be big just because i dont have a girl and i would be with a diff SO (cause my boy's dad is deceased) so there would be a lot of different people coming.