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If you could not conceive..

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 2:23 AM
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Would you try in vitro fertilization or adopt?

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MixedCooke
by Gold Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 2:24 AM

$20k a pop for invitro with no guarantees--I would probably adopt.

babygomez
by April on Feb. 17, 2012 at 2:28 AM

We would adopt with the amount of money we'd pay for In Vitro.

JacksonGirl
by Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 7:22 AM
adopt
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by Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 7:23 AM

A lot of times adopting is just as expensive.  But if I could afford it I would definitely adopt!


Misery_Stitches
by Gold Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 7:44 AM
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I wouldnt do either, I would see if I could whangai a/some family child/ren (see here for what whangai means).

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Dragonmamas
by Ari on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:16 AM
I would probably just adopt.
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k_hall1784
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:17 AM
Adopt
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larissalarie
by Gold Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:24 AM
Neither.
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-Mana-
by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:24 AM

I'd adopt, which I would love to do someday anyway.

Wife-N-MommyOf3
by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:30 AM

I'd try in vitro. I doubt I would adopt though.

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