What do you do if spanking and time outs dont work?

Positive reinforcement and redirection

I don't spank. I don't think think they learn right from wrong that way, just to fear the reaction of the parent.
I have found that with my son a good explanation of WHY things are no Nos and showing him what he can do, works really well.
Example: we can't climb on the stove because it can burn you and you can fall, but with mommies supervision, you CAN climb the jungle gym and slide, etc.
Its worked really well for us. If my son does do something he's not supposed to, and he can tell me why he's.not supposed to do it so I know he understands, he will be reminded of a better alternative and get a "time out" sitting next to me to think about the better choice and what he will choose next.
Hope you find answers!

He'll learn in time. Just try to create situations where he can succeed and not get into trouble.

Quoting larissalarie:

Positive reinforcement and redirection

That is a hard one..i have the ssme prolbem with ny niece and nephew

Consistency is the key. No matter what type of discipline you use. Don't switch back and forth. You may have to so the same thing 20+ times for them to understand.

I have my first one but Ive read that they usually do weird things and smile as a sign of accomplishment,...to them is still a new world and 1 minute per year in time out, (time out for them is when they dont have mommy's attention).... and maybe he just needs more mommy or daddy time....

Good Luck!!!

I dont wanna think when i get to that point my lil is 13months now.

Quoting larissalarie:

Positive reinforcement and redirection

You just have to keep telling him and taking him down.

Be consistant! Maybe you should look into getting a child lock for the oven. My oldest climbed in the oven at about a year old and we went and got an oven lock so she can't open it. Babies R Us, Target and Lowes sell them, you can also get them from One step ahead.

Just like the other moms said be very consistant.  I am also one that if they even think about it then time out.  My son touches the tv.  I tell him no walk away.  He then likes to stand very close but not touching.  I pull him away and say no walk away.  They can be little stinkers some times.  See my son try to see how close he can get with out touching.  I do not even give him a chance to touch it.  if he gets any where near the tv I pull him away and say no touch.

This, but it's more like 100+ times lol. 

Quoting Junebaby18:

Consistency is the key. No matter what type of discipline you use. Don't switch back and forth. You may have to so the same thing 20+ times for them to understand.