Funeral Edicate?

It depends on the type of funeral. Older children are usually allowed, especially if they were close. Most funeral ediquette says no young children or babies. It's up to you if you want to follow that with your family. Honestly my dd is like glue to me, I'd have to have her there but that comes with the added stress of "will she behave? What if she cries? Will I miss part of the service due to having to walk her outside?"

Sorry about your grandmother!

I don't think my family will be bothered. I think they will be more upset if I don't bring them.

I guess ill have to talk to my mom.

If your Gram says yes, then I would. Its her funeral so it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks.

My family have always been fine with kids

There is no "funeral etiquette" when it comes to children's ages and attending a funeral. The only etiquette is to make sure any disruptive behavior is immediately tended to.
There is absolutely no reason why your children shouldn't attend your grandmother's funeral. Children can bring a smile to other's faces at a very sad time. Just make sure you have someone that can take them outside if the need arises.
My thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time. *HUGS*

Let some of the kids decide.  Often, funeral homes have special rooms kids can go in if they feel uncomfortable during the service.  Older kids can let you know if they want to go or not.

As for the baby, again, talk to teh funeral home.  The special rooms often have closed circuit TVs so you can watch the funeral while staying with baby, or enlist a friend to sit in there with baby while you sit with the older kids in person.  Don't underestimate friends!  They can easily sit in another area, or take the baby to a nearby park, during the service, but be with you before, during the luncheon, etc.  Not many people will need to see the baby during the actual service, but they might enjoy seeing her around during the other times, kwim?

And some homes even offer a "babysitter' during the service!  It's all going to take some calling around to find the resources you need.  It would be nice if she sat quiet with you, but it will be nice as well if you have options.  Talk to other parents with young kids in the family and try to get something organized.

I would take them. I took DD to my aunts funeral when she was a baby. It's their family too. I'm sorry to hear about your grandma :(

It depends on their age. I would think older kids that can sit quietly are fine but you probably won't want them there if they are going to be running around. It's a time where people share stories and grieve for loved ones and you might be surprised as how much crying you do, or other people do. 

I had to go to my great uncles funeral a few weeks ago and I didn't bring my 18 month old. I hardly knew the man and I cried like a baby.

When my grandfather passed away, my children were 2 1/2 and 5 months old. During the service, DH kept the oldest in the narthex of the church, behind closed doors, and I held the baby in the pew. My dad and step-mother (it was my mother's father who had passed away) sat right behind me, and when the baby started to fuss, my step-mom took him and left the room with him. She also stayed at the church with the kids while the rest of us went to the graveside. That worked really well, and allowed everyone who needed to be in the service to stay, and more peripheral members attended to the kids when needed...

 ((hugs))

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Quoting Misery_Stitches:

If your Gram says yes, then I would. Its her funeral so it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks.

My family have always been fine with kids