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How do u have sex?? tmi

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So I just had my first and my sex hormones are in over drive DF and I wanna try but I feel horrible if I leave Takoda in another room alone. DF tried explaining to me that he could be in our room in his make shift room we have but I feel weird even thinking about making love with him in the room. Does anyone have some advice for me?
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by on May. 1, 2012 at 9:36 AM
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by on May. 3, 2012 at 2:41 PM

trust me.. you get over it. besides... He'll be asleep. 

by on May. 3, 2012 at 3:03 PM
Tell df to wait till the baby is sleeping and hell be fun. You can have a quickies in another room. Man have need, you don't want to ignore him. It's norm to feel th way you areas a first time mom but as time passes by it'll get better.

Try to have a balance and talk to df to give you some time to adjust to your new life. Hope he understand nd work with your feelings.
by on May. 3, 2012 at 3:05 PM

We would try and have sex while he was in the same room and napping, but we would always wake him, it's like he knew it was grown up time. haha.... SO after some failed attempts and a bit of a dry spell we just had to sucked it up and went to another room. it does take some getting used to but you have to let go of that guilty feeling girl! I mean babies need to nap, and parents need some loooove time. it gets easier, promise:)

by on May. 3, 2012 at 3:08 PM

 I failed bad at having sex with DH with the babies awake. There is just something disturbing to me about gettin' down and hearing "Awwwww ooooooo" from the other room. First time we tried, and I heard DS laugh on the monitor, I laughed and was done... Never tried again lol

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