Help me

Where are you i trying to deal with the same thing.

I'd seek help from a counselor. Its hard being a mom and it doesn't always come naturally.

Why didn't you want her? Why keep her if you didn't want her? Maybe a therapist can help. Did something happen that made you feel this way?

I dont know. From the time I found out I was pregnant I didnt want her. My husband gave me no option. I wanted to do adoption but he said we had to keep her otherwise I wouldnt have kept her

Sounds like PP depression to me. Definitely seek help from a therapist or doctor, they can be a big help. Good luck!

It has to be hard with no family around. I didn't have help from family either, and husband had to get back to work ASAP, so as soon as we were home from the hospital he went back to work. Sometimes moms just don't bond with baby over night. It can take time. Talk to your ob/gyn or your babies doc to try and get some help, someone to talk to or anything. Come on here to vent or call a family member or close friend to talk.there is no reason why you shouldn't be able to get some help. Moms need help, we are very close to being super heroes but do occasionally need a break and someone to be there to help us. Why does husband say no help? Being a new mom is not easy. You can do it though. If you ever need anything dot hesitate to message me!

 Hmmmm...do you ave any other children? What was the reason you didn't want to keep her in the first place? Do you think your husband may have made the situation worse?

Have you called your family?  Have you thought of just going home?  I agree with the other posters that you may be dealing with depression and need help.  Your husband sounds like an insensitive jerk and if this is his response to your calling out for help, then I wonder what kind of life you will have with him.  You need to talk to someone about that too.

I do have two other children. One 7 but she lives with my previous husband and my 14 month old son lives with me and is from my current marriage. Id love to go home for help and support but he wont allow it. Ive tried talking to my doctor but she says she thinks it will pass. My health insurance ends this month and then I wont be able to recieve help as I have no way to pay for it.