I just had my daughter a month ago. I never wanted to keep her from the begining but my husband wouldnt have it any other way. I have no bond with this child, have no idea how to get her to stop crying or what she wants when she cries. I have no urge to hold her. Its more like theres a baby in the house and I have to care for it feeling. I dont feel like shes even mine. I explain my feelings to my husband who is away for work for the next 6 months and he tells me to shut up and deal with it. Where I am I have no family, his family isnt around and hes moved us so far away from everyone I have no friends or help and he wont let me get help. I dont know what to do at this point. Is there a way I can get a bond with her?