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Helping the cause or hindering it? Time cover shows nursing 3 year old

Posted by on May. 10, 2012 at 1:05 PM
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May 10, 2012 11:24am

Time Cover Shows 3-Year-Old Breast-Feeding

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This week's cover of Time Magazine shows a mother nursing her 3-year-old son.

Should a mom continue nursing her child even after he’s too big to be held in her arms? For mothers who practice what’s known as “attachment parenting,” the answer is an emphatic “yes” — and some are more than happy to demonstrate.

This week’s cover of Time Magazine shows Los Angeles mother Jamie Lynne Grumet nursing her 3-year-old son, who reaches her breast with the help of a chair.

“When you think of breast-feeding, you think of mothers holding their children, which was impossible with some of these older kids,” photographer Martin Schoeller said in a Time Magazine online story explaining the cover photo. “I liked the idea of having the kids standing up to underline the point that this was an uncommon situation.”

The cover story illustrated by the photo takes a look at the philosophy of attachment parenting today — which, in addition to extended breastfeeding, also promotes co-sleeping and using slings to “wear” infants — and its roots in the 1992 parenting guide, “The Baby Book” by Dr. Bill and Martha Sears.

The magazine will be on newsstands Friday. Time tweeted out the cover this morning and the buzz has been building on Twitter ever since. One apparent supporter of attachment parenting called it “inflammatory” and “an insult to AP (attachment parents) moms everywhere” while another Tweeter criticized it as “sexualized.” It has also already been the subject of parody, with the blog SooperMexican.com posting a doctored version of the photo, with President Obama’s head atop the body of the nursing mother and Sandra Fluke, the Georgetown University law school student infamously called a “slut” by conservative talk radio Rush Limbaugh, as the nursing child.

“Nightline” correspondent Juju Chang recently interviewed sitcom star Mayim Bialik about her practice of attachment parenting. Watch and read about the interview here.



Posted by on May. 10, 2012 at 1:05 PM
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Baby_Avas_Momma
by Elizabeth on May. 10, 2012 at 6:17 PM
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Seriously?

Quoting Cass052005:

It looks like it is bordering on child porn. The way the kid is looking at the camera like "yeah, look at what I got" is so creepy.
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Dragonmamas
by Ari on May. 10, 2012 at 6:18 PM
I'm all for ebf, though I don't bf past two months. But that photo disgusts me.
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JeniJonas
by Member on May. 10, 2012 at 6:54 PM
Me too :-)


Quoting Baby_Avas_Momma:

I love it :)

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kathislove80
by Bronze Member on May. 10, 2012 at 7:01 PM
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I think that picture is sensationalized, purposefully sexualized and made to sell magazines. I'm pro BFing and however long someone does it is none of my business. The article is about attachment parenting and Dr Sears. Why does that photo need to be on the cover? If anything, it's hurting the idea of AP
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kathislove80
by Bronze Member on May. 10, 2012 at 7:01 PM
Two months? Just curious and not trying to bash, but why?


Quoting Dragonmamas:

I'm all for ebf, though I don't bf past two months. But that photo disgusts me.

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Gabeys_Mommy
by Bronze Member on May. 10, 2012 at 7:03 PM
Not my cup of tea, I wanted my own space & to sleep through the night at 16 months. But kudos to her..
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farmlovin
by on May. 10, 2012 at 7:05 PM
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You've got to be kidding...

Quoting Cass052005:

It looks like it is bordering on child porn. The way the kid is looking at the camera like "yeah, look at what I got" is so creepy.
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erinmarie312
by on May. 10, 2012 at 7:09 PM
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Thanks :-) it's a very split topic. 

Quoting louzannalady:

I like your response. Very well-balanced and self aware and culturally aware! Love it!

Quoting erinmarie312:

In my opinion if a mother wants to nurse til the kid is 10 then let her. It's her child, no one elses. They recommend kids drink lots of milk, but why does it have to be cows milk specifically? I personally don't want to continue pumping for that long. We live in a world where woman now work and do so much more than just sit at home with the children all day. I have this opinion, but at the same time I look at a picture like this and think it is a little strange. But that is because today and ever since I was younger, breasts have been such a sexual, taboo thing. I have never even seen my mothers breasts(that I can remember, haha) and never want to! But we shouldn't feel that way, should we?



smwilliams
by Bronze Member on May. 10, 2012 at 7:09 PM
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My mother bf my little sister till she was almost 5 yrs old.
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mem82
by Bronze Member on May. 10, 2012 at 7:53 PM

The thing that bugs me more than anything, I think, is neither looks very happy doing it.

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