My three week old eats every 3.5 hours via bottle during the day, and wakes every 3 hours at night for a bottle (screaming for one), yet during the night feedings, after about an ounce, he doesn't seem to want anymore and wants to go back to sleep. I tried to let him cry a little (not too much at 3 weeks!) to make sure he is really hungry, and he persists. How can I actually get him to fill up during those nighttime feedings?
Quoting Baby_Avas_Momma:
Crying is one of the last cues of hunger, but even so, at 3 weeks old there is a reason why your baby is crying, so you really shouldn't let him cry to "make sure he is really hungry". If he wants to fall asleep after an ounce, I would just let him fall asleep. If he's hungry he'll eat. As long as he's healthy and gaining weight, I wouldn't worry about him only drinking alittle bit during the night.
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I don't bottle feed, but those feedings are normal. At 2 weeks old, their stomachs are the size of a ping pong ball, so I think a 1 ounce feeding sounds pretty good.
Babies are designed to suckle constantly, that is how they build up our supply. That need doesn't disappear just because they aren't breastfed. Please don't let your baby cry :( If he's crying, it's because he needs something. Crying is the last sign that a baby is hungry. You were sleeping, so the other cues were missed. He needs to eat. Waking like that is a good sign as well. Babies who sleep long stretches so early are at a much higher risk for SIDS.

This exactly.
Quoting Baby_Avas_Momma:
Crying is one of the last cues of hunger, but even so, at 3 weeks old there is a reason why your baby is crying, so you really shouldn't let him cry to "make sure he is really hungry". If he wants to fall asleep after an ounce, I would just let him fall asleep. If he's hungry he'll eat. As long as he's healthy and gaining weight, I wouldn't worry about him only drinking alittle bit during the night.
My situation may be different because my daughter was born really underweight, but DD's pediatrician suggested to do things to keep her awake while feeding because she needed to get BM into her (was bottle feeding). While I was feeding her at night, if she started dozing off, I would lightly tickle her feet or rub her head. It would wake her up enough to start eating again. However, if he is turning his head away from the bottle or popping the nipple out of his mouth, then he is probably full and I wouldn't push it on him.




- Jacob57
on May. 25, 2012 at 7:56 AM