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The Cost of Raising a Kid is Over $230K: Can You Afford It?

Posted by on Jun. 15, 2012 at 2:27 PM
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The Cost of Raising a Kid is Over $230K: Can You Afford It?

Posted by Ericka Sóuter

cashYour bundle of joy will cost you just that -- a bundle!

It takes $234, 900 to raise a child, to be exact. That's the price tag on all the food, shelter, clothing, and health care required to care for child from birth to age 17, according to the U.S. Department of Agriculture's annual report, "Expenditures on Children by Families."

And you were worried about college! Parents are gonna feel the pinch way before then.

In 1960, the first time the report was published, middle income familiy's spent about $25,000 over 17 years. It cost that much just to arm today's kids with the latest gadgets (iPhones, iPads, Wii's) and in the hippest fashions. We post-millennial parents are just spending a lot more than our's did. Yes, it's mostly because of inflation but let's be honest -- we are a lot more indulgent than they were.

Of course, the grand total must be adjusted based on income. If your annual take home is less that $60,000, then you may only end up spending $170,000 for each kid. Still a hefty sum , I know. You just have to chuck it up as the price of parenthood.

Does this estimate scare you?


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Posted by on Jun. 15, 2012 at 2:27 PM
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YzmaRocks
by Gold Member on Jun. 15, 2012 at 2:31 PM
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No, not at all. I think many of those costs can be minimized by breastfeeding, cloth diapering, making their food from scratch, and living frugally overall. My children do not need name brand toys and clothes nor do they need the latest gidgets and gadgets. I plan in having a large family :)
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Mrs.Velasquez
by Bronze Member on Jun. 15, 2012 at 2:49 PM
Nope,I've been raising my kids just fine so far. I don't sit here and think how much everything costs. Of course I try to save where I can,but I don't really need to. I have two girls and I'm done having kids :)
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Turtledoves
by Ruby Member on Jun. 15, 2012 at 2:50 PM
This exactly.

Quoting YzmaRocks:

No, not at all. I think many of those costs can be minimized by breastfeeding, cloth diapering, making their food from scratch, and living frugally overall. My children do not need name brand toys and clothes nor do they need the latest gidgets and gadgets. I plan in having a large family :)
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ginnyk87
by Bronze Member on Jun. 15, 2012 at 2:56 PM
I breastfeed, buy the majority of ds's toys and clothes at yard sales or thrift stores. I use coupons, cook meals at home and we end up saving a lot of money that way. Kids remember the little things more than anything. They are not going to care if you bought their birthday cake at wal mart or if you make it from scratch when they were five. When you continuously buy them whatever they want they start expecting it, but raising kids really isn't as expensive as you think of you do it right.
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_muffin_
by on Jun. 15, 2012 at 3:04 PM

I can assure you that my 3 kids together will not cost that much. We breastfeed, wear hand-me-downs and cook from sratch. It doesn't bother me that my daughter wears her brother's jeans. So far my kids would rather play outside together with a frisbee and eachother than any fancy gadget. Good food isn't that expensive if you are willing to put in a little work.


babygomez
by April on Jun. 15, 2012 at 3:05 PM

Lol, no.

robibuni
by Gold Member on Jun. 15, 2012 at 3:06 PM
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It doesn't scare me. We take shortcuts here and there financially to add up big in the long run :)

That being said, I think if everyone waited until they were financially ready for a child, the human race would've died out a long time ago.

Randi02
by Platinum Member on Jun. 15, 2012 at 3:20 PM

I think that seems low.

Thinking about clothing, extracurriculars, school fees/tuition, birthdays, Christmas...

Hell, our grocery bill is at least $1600 a month lol. I wonder if it's different for us (Canada) because we don't factor health care costs into that. Our medical is covered.

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MamaSulli2005
by Bronze Member on Jun. 15, 2012 at 9:16 PM

Oh whatever. There's so many ways to be frugal. ie not spending money on iphones and ipads for your kids...

Amberleigh81
by Bronze Member on Jun. 15, 2012 at 9:33 PM
Good Lord! How many people are you feeding??? :)

Our bill is $200-300 a month for two (and a half...baby is just eating little bites).


Quoting Randi02:

I think that seems low.

Thinking about clothing, extracurriculars, school fees/tuition, birthdays, Christmas...

Hell, our grocery bill is at least $1600 a month lol. I wonder if it's different for us (Canada) because we don't factor health care costs into that. Our medical is covered.

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