So i was thinking of buying this oval shaped side sleeper from target for my 1 month old. I'm nursing and Its great to have him close to me, also I'm scared of sids so I hold him or have him very close to me at bedtime. Problem is, lately I've been so exhausted lately that dh says I move a lot in my sleep and even though he says I reposition baby, I don't remember it. My 5 yr old apparently came to bed 3x last night and I tucked her back in, but have no memory of this. Is it unsafe to cosleep? Would the side sleeper benefit us? Like keep baby safe from me I guess..I don't know why I'm not remembering anything when I wake up in the middle of the night..its a scary thought!