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Mom who dont vax

Posted by on Jul. 22, 2012 at 1:04 PM
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Or selectively vax, I told the pedi no to the chicken pox shot and the MMR, I think it would be better if he just got those viruses while he was young, but am i gonna have to go out and look for these viruses, or will he still come across them with most others being vaxed against them?

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HopesNDreams
by on Jul. 22, 2012 at 8:40 PM
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Another interesting thing to consider....

If you gave your child tylenol or advil following the vaccine, you have suppressed the immune system response and potentially negated the protection of the vaccine. This is part of the reason why vaccinated children catch things - they are essentially unvaccinated. How many parents who are so devoted to vaccines are also having yearly titer tests to determine if their child still has immunity?

Also, many 'minor' reactions to vaccines are just as bad as having chicken pox. Witnessing a severe reaction is enough to make any parent reconsider the shots.
RaLeighsMommy11
by Silver Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 8:40 PM
This particular school YES you can't go if your not vaxed! There is no way around it @ this school. People can't lie their way in saying its religious region or they are allergic when they r not or they really don't have it for a religious reason! Moms know this
Around here if their kids are not vaxed they do not try to attend this school!


Quoting IrishIz:

Um...what makes you think I can't send my kids to school without vaccines?  I can.  I've done it.  I also know kids in private schools who are not vaccinated.  Don't kid yourself into believing that a private school only allows vaccinated children.  If a child comes along who is allergic or has a medical condition do you think they will turn them away?  Oh you can bet they won't but they may not tell you that.

You can live in your fantasy world and I'll stick with reality.  I know my kids come in contact with all sorts of children...vax'd, unvax'd...and it's all good because I either A. believe in the vaccines my children get or B. am happy with my decision to skip vaccines and accept life without the vaccines.



Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't ask the kids she is around I know are vaxed because their parents tell me or ask me to make sure she is vaxed as well. She is home with me all the time except for the 3 little kids I keep. One is my cousins child & I've taken him for shots & other is my best friends child & I've taken both of them for shots! Other kids she is around is @ church in the nursery & they won't allow you in the nursery unless you are vaxed to keep the other kids safe. So that's 10 kids right there I know are vAxed. Other kids she is around are family & I know they r vaxed because they always share on Facebook when it's time to take their child for shots :). And you can't send your child to the private school or private preschool here without a full form of vaccination & they don't allow you to claim religion reasons or all that mess. If you don't vax you go to the other school so I won't have to keep her away from them in school cause they will all be vaxed. By the time she is older she will be stronger so if she comes in contact with all those "scary unvaxed kids" then maybe her immune system will fight off whatever they have if they have something! & I do know 4 kids who their mother don't vax and we do not come in contact with them



Quoting IrishIz:

You question the parent of every single child she is around?  If somebody questioned me because they felt they had a right to answers I wouldn't give them that information.  If you want to hold a nice conversation with me I will talk about it but I would never answer a friend (or stranger at the park) who thought she had the right to question me.  Good luck with staying away from those scary unvax'd kids.



Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I said I wouldn't WANT my child Around it but can't help if she is later on when she is in school but as of now her being yoUng the little kids she is around I KNOW are vaxed! I trust the vaccines but there is always still a chance! & she has abetted chance of not Catching it from vaxed kids





Quoting IrishIz:

If your children are vaccinated why are you afraid of the children that are not vaccinated? The reality is you have no way of knowing who is or isn't vaccinated...nor do you actually have any legal right to the information.







If you trust your vaccines...you have nothing to worry about.











Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't understand why anyone would WANT their kids to get a virus or disease.. Or better yet carrying it and passing it along to other kids they r in contact with! I def would never want my child near any other kid not vaccinated



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IrishIz
by Bronze Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 8:44 PM

Whoever said somebody would lie about an allergy?  If they have a true allergy you really think the school would turn them away?  I'd love to know the name of this school.  I honestly think you are pulling some of this out of your ass if I'm being honest.

Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

This particular school YES you can't go if your not vaxed! There is no way around it @ this school. People can't lie their way in saying its religious region or they are allergic when they r not or they really don't have it for a religious reason! Moms know this
Around here if their kids are not vaxed they do not try to attend this school!


Quoting IrishIz:

Um...what makes you think I can't send my kids to school without vaccines?  I can.  I've done it.  I also know kids in private schools who are not vaccinated.  Don't kid yourself into believing that a private school only allows vaccinated children.  If a child comes along who is allergic or has a medical condition do you think they will turn them away?  Oh you can bet they won't but they may not tell you that.

You can live in your fantasy world and I'll stick with reality.  I know my kids come in contact with all sorts of children...vax'd, unvax'd...and it's all good because I either A. believe in the vaccines my children get or B. am happy with my decision to skip vaccines and accept life without the vaccines.



Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't ask the kids she is around I know are vaxed because their parents tell me or ask me to make sure she is vaxed as well. She is home with me all the time except for the 3 little kids I keep. One is my cousins child & I've taken him for shots & other is my best friends child & I've taken both of them for shots! Other kids she is around is @ church in the nursery & they won't allow you in the nursery unless you are vaxed to keep the other kids safe. So that's 10 kids right there I know are vAxed. Other kids she is around are family & I know they r vaxed because they always share on Facebook when it's time to take their child for shots :). And you can't send your child to the private school or private preschool here without a full form of vaccination & they don't allow you to claim religion reasons or all that mess. If you don't vax you go to the other school so I won't have to keep her away from them in school cause they will all be vaxed. By the time she is older she will be stronger so if she comes in contact with all those "scary unvaxed kids" then maybe her immune system will fight off whatever they have if they have something! & I do know 4 kids who their mother don't vax and we do not come in contact with them



Quoting IrishIz:

You question the parent of every single child she is around?  If somebody questioned me because they felt they had a right to answers I wouldn't give them that information.  If you want to hold a nice conversation with me I will talk about it but I would never answer a friend (or stranger at the park) who thought she had the right to question me.  Good luck with staying away from those scary unvax'd kids.



Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I said I wouldn't WANT my child Around it but can't help if she is later on when she is in school but as of now her being yoUng the little kids she is around I KNOW are vaxed! I trust the vaccines but there is always still a chance! & she has abetted chance of not Catching it from vaxed kids





Quoting IrishIz:

If your children are vaccinated why are you afraid of the children that are not vaccinated? The reality is you have no way of knowing who is or isn't vaccinated...nor do you actually have any legal right to the information.







If you trust your vaccines...you have nothing to worry about.











Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't understand why anyone would WANT their kids to get a virus or disease.. Or better yet carrying it and passing it along to other kids they r in contact with! I def would never want my child near any other kid not vaccinated




RaLeighsMommy11
by Silver Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 8:50 PM
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Actually I'm not because Ive done research. Talked to the school. My friend is the same as me & I went with her when she went. Her son will be starting kindergarten there, I didnt say everyone lies but some do! Some do it so they don't have to vax & can still send their kids to school. It's my personal preference to not want my child around unvaxed kids like you don't care.. I do! And I'm allowed to feel that way! My dd's pediatrician will not see patients that refuse to vax.. Yes they can do that! If u don't want to vax your child or other moms don't that's fine their choice but I don't want my kids around them! I trust my vaccines but you never know what can happen & I'm not risking her being in contact right now with one of the diseases! I woud tell you the school but I don't like random people on the Internet to know my location but it's a school in Northern Alabama!

Quoting IrishIz:

Whoever said somebody would lie about an allergy?  If they have a true allergy you really think the school would turn them away?  I'd love to know the name of this school.  I honestly think you are pulling some of this out of your ass if I'm being honest.


Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

This particular school YES you can't go if your not vaxed! There is no way around it @ this school. People can't lie their way in saying its religious region or they are allergic when they r not or they really don't have it for a religious reason! Moms know this

Around here if their kids are not vaxed they do not try to attend this school!




Quoting IrishIz:

Um...what makes you think I can't send my kids to school without vaccines?  I can.  I've done it.  I also know kids in private schools who are not vaccinated.  Don't kid yourself into believing that a private school only allows vaccinated children.  If a child comes along who is allergic or has a medical condition do you think they will turn them away?  Oh you can bet they won't but they may not tell you that.

You can live in your fantasy world and I'll stick with reality.  I know my kids come in contact with all sorts of children...vax'd, unvax'd...and it's all good because I either A. believe in the vaccines my children get or B. am happy with my decision to skip vaccines and accept life without the vaccines.




Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't ask the kids she is around I know are vaxed because their parents tell me or ask me to make sure she is vaxed as well. She is home with me all the time except for the 3 little kids I keep. One is my cousins child & I've taken him for shots & other is my best friends child & I've taken both of them for shots! Other kids she is around is @ church in the nursery & they won't allow you in the nursery unless you are vaxed to keep the other kids safe. So that's 10 kids right there I know are vAxed. Other kids she is around are family & I know they r vaxed because they always share on Facebook when it's time to take their child for shots :). And you can't send your child to the private school or private preschool here without a full form of vaccination & they don't allow you to claim religion reasons or all that mess. If you don't vax you go to the other school so I won't have to keep her away from them in school cause they will all be vaxed. By the time she is older she will be stronger so if she comes in contact with all those "scary unvaxed kids" then maybe her immune system will fight off whatever they have if they have something! & I do know 4 kids who their mother don't vax and we do not come in contact with them





Quoting IrishIz:

You question the parent of every single child she is around?  If somebody questioned me because they felt they had a right to answers I wouldn't give them that information.  If you want to hold a nice conversation with me I will talk about it but I would never answer a friend (or stranger at the park) who thought she had the right to question me.  Good luck with staying away from those scary unvax'd kids.




Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I said I wouldn't WANT my child Around it but can't help if she is later on when she is in school but as of now her being yoUng the little kids she is around I KNOW are vaxed! I trust the vaccines but there is always still a chance! & she has abetted chance of not Catching it from vaxed kids







Quoting IrishIz:

If your children are vaccinated why are you afraid of the children that are not vaccinated? The reality is you have no way of knowing who is or isn't vaccinated...nor do you actually have any legal right to the information.









If you trust your vaccines...you have nothing to worry about.














Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't understand why anyone would WANT their kids to get a virus or disease.. Or better yet carrying it and passing it along to other kids they r in contact with! I def would never want my child near any other kid not vaccinated




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ceckyl
by Silver Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 8:53 PM
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Your under 2 year old child attends school? Interesting. Does this school receive government funding?

Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

Actually I'm not because Ive done research. Talked to the school. My friend is the same as me & I went with her when she went. Her son will be starting kindergarten there, I didnt say everyone lies but some do! Some do it so they don't have to vax & can still send their kids to school. It's my personal preference to not want my child around unvaxed kids like you don't care.. I do! And I'm allowed to feel that way! My dd's pediatrician will not see patients that refuse to vax.. Yes they can do that! If u don't want to vax your child or other moms don't that's fine their choice but I don't want my kids around them! I trust my vaccines but you never know what can happen & I'm not risking her being in contact right now with one of the diseases! I woud tell you the school but I don't like random people on the Internet to know my location but it's a school in Northern Alabama!

Quoting IrishIz:

Whoever said somebody would lie about an allergy?  If they have a true allergy you really think the school would turn them away?  I'd love to know the name of this school.  I honestly think you are pulling some of this out of your ass if I'm being honest.



Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

This particular school YES you can't go if your not vaxed! There is no way around it @ this school. People can't lie their way in saying its religious region or they are allergic when they r not or they really don't have it for a religious reason! Moms know this


Around here if their kids are not vaxed they do not try to attend this school!






Quoting IrishIz:

Um...what makes you think I can't send my kids to school without vaccines?  I can.  I've done it.  I also know kids in private schools who are not vaccinated.  Don't kid yourself into believing that a private school only allows vaccinated children.  If a child comes along who is allergic or has a medical condition do you think they will turn them away?  Oh you can bet they won't but they may not tell you that.

You can live in your fantasy world and I'll stick with reality.  I know my kids come in contact with all sorts of children...vax'd, unvax'd...and it's all good because I either A. believe in the vaccines my children get or B. am happy with my decision to skip vaccines and accept life without the vaccines.





Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't ask the kids she is around I know are vaxed because their parents tell me or ask me to make sure she is vaxed as well. She is home with me all the time except for the 3 little kids I keep. One is my cousins child & I've taken him for shots & other is my best friends child & I've taken both of them for shots! Other kids she is around is @ church in the nursery & they won't allow you in the nursery unless you are vaxed to keep the other kids safe. So that's 10 kids right there I know are vAxed. Other kids she is around are family & I know they r vaxed because they always share on Facebook when it's time to take their child for shots :). And you can't send your child to the private school or private preschool here without a full form of vaccination & they don't allow you to claim religion reasons or all that mess. If you don't vax you go to the other school so I won't have to keep her away from them in school cause they will all be vaxed. By the time she is older she will be stronger so if she comes in contact with all those "scary unvaxed kids" then maybe her immune system will fight off whatever they have if they have something! & I do know 4 kids who their mother don't vax and we do not come in contact with them







Quoting IrishIz:

You question the parent of every single child she is around?  If somebody questioned me because they felt they had a right to answers I wouldn't give them that information.  If you want to hold a nice conversation with me I will talk about it but I would never answer a friend (or stranger at the park) who thought she had the right to question me.  Good luck with staying away from those scary unvax'd kids.





Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I said I wouldn't WANT my child Around it but can't help if she is later on when she is in school but as of now her being yoUng the little kids she is around I KNOW are vaxed! I trust the vaccines but there is always still a chance! & she has abetted chance of not Catching it from vaxed kids









Quoting IrishIz:

If your children are vaccinated why are you afraid of the children that are not vaccinated? The reality is you have no way of knowing who is or isn't vaccinated...nor do you actually have any legal right to the information.











If you trust your vaccines...you have nothing to worry about.

















Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't understand why anyone would WANT their kids to get a virus or disease.. Or better yet carrying it and passing it along to other kids they r in contact with! I def would never want my child near any other kid not vaccinated






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mommyjenn84
by on Jul. 22, 2012 at 8:55 PM
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As of the latest, its mostly VAXED kids that are getting whooping cough and they are suspecting its because the vax is actually failing.

Quoting keriley1:

Well actually because people aren't vaccinating you don't have to go far. Whooping cough is going around like crazy I am sure soon so will other things.

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RaLeighsMommy11
by Silver Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 8:55 PM
Did I say anywhere she attended school? No I said I went with my best friend who's son is starting kindergarten to talk to them with her! They have preschool aged kids though age 3&4 then 5 year olds start kindergarten and they have to be on the waiting list a year to be accepted so I did sign her up just in case I send her @ 3 which I'm sure I won't! And I don't know about government funding! I doubt they do most private schools don't I don't think

Quoting ceckyl:

Your under 2 year old child attends school? Interesting. Does this school receive government funding?


Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

Actually I'm not because Ive done research. Talked to the school. My friend is the same as me & I went with her when she went. Her son will be starting kindergarten there, I didnt say everyone lies but some do! Some do it so they don't have to vax & can still send their kids to school. It's my personal preference to not want my child around unvaxed kids like you don't care.. I do! And I'm allowed to feel that way! My dd's pediatrician will not see patients that refuse to vax.. Yes they can do that! If u don't want to vax your child or other moms don't that's fine their choice but I don't want my kids around them! I trust my vaccines but you never know what can happen & I'm not risking her being in contact right now with one of the diseases! I woud tell you the school but I don't like random people on the Internet to know my location but it's a school in Northern Alabama!

Quoting IrishIz:

Whoever said somebody would lie about an allergy?  If they have a true allergy you really think the school would turn them away?  I'd love to know the name of this school.  I honestly think you are pulling some of this out of your ass if I'm being honest.



Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

This particular school YES you can't go if your not vaxed! There is no way around it @ this school. People can't lie their way in saying its religious region or they are allergic when they r not or they really don't have it for a religious reason! Moms know this


Around here if their kids are not vaxed they do not try to attend this school!






Quoting IrishIz:

Um...what makes you think I can't send my kids to school without vaccines?  I can.  I've done it.  I also know kids in private schools who are not vaccinated.  Don't kid yourself into believing that a private school only allows vaccinated children.  If a child comes along who is allergic or has a medical condition do you think they will turn them away?  Oh you can bet they won't but they may not tell you that.

You can live in your fantasy world and I'll stick with reality.  I know my kids come in contact with all sorts of children...vax'd, unvax'd...and it's all good because I either A. believe in the vaccines my children get or B. am happy with my decision to skip vaccines and accept life without the vaccines.





Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't ask the kids she is around I know are vaxed because their parents tell me or ask me to make sure she is vaxed as well. She is home with me all the time except for the 3 little kids I keep. One is my cousins child & I've taken him for shots & other is my best friends child & I've taken both of them for shots! Other kids she is around is @ church in the nursery & they won't allow you in the nursery unless you are vaxed to keep the other kids safe. So that's 10 kids right there I know are vAxed. Other kids she is around are family & I know they r vaxed because they always share on Facebook when it's time to take their child for shots :). And you can't send your child to the private school or private preschool here without a full form of vaccination & they don't allow you to claim religion reasons or all that mess. If you don't vax you go to the other school so I won't have to keep her away from them in school cause they will all be vaxed. By the time she is older she will be stronger so if she comes in contact with all those "scary unvaxed kids" then maybe her immune system will fight off whatever they have if they have something! & I do know 4 kids who their mother don't vax and we do not come in contact with them







Quoting IrishIz:

You question the parent of every single child she is around?  If somebody questioned me because they felt they had a right to answers I wouldn't give them that information.  If you want to hold a nice conversation with me I will talk about it but I would never answer a friend (or stranger at the park) who thought she had the right to question me.  Good luck with staying away from those scary unvax'd kids.





Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I said I wouldn't WANT my child Around it but can't help if she is later on when she is in school but as of now her being yoUng the little kids she is around I KNOW are vaxed! I trust the vaccines but there is always still a chance! & she has abetted chance of not Catching it from vaxed kids









Quoting IrishIz:

If your children are vaccinated why are you afraid of the children that are not vaccinated? The reality is you have no way of knowing who is or isn't vaccinated...nor do you actually have any legal right to the information.











If you trust your vaccines...you have nothing to worry about.

















Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't understand why anyone would WANT their kids to get a virus or disease.. Or better yet carrying it and passing it along to other kids they r in contact with! I def would never want my child near any other kid not vaccinated







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IrishIz
by Bronze Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 8:58 PM
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If you really trusted vaccines you wouldn't have an issue with unvax'd children.  Do you think that unvax'd children are walking around with these diseases on their skin waiting to jump out at you?

It just doesn't make sense.  You believe in vaccines.  You vaccinate.  You don't want your kids near unvax'd kids.  Why?  Oh, because the vaccines you believe in so much might not work?  So you believe in them 100% or just a little bit?

There's a very good chance there is a child at that school who isn't vaccinated.  Do you let your kids around HIV positive kids?  Just wondering if they are scary too.  Does your school discriminate against them?

Lots of doctors won't see patients who don't walk through the door and follow their directions.  Those doctors are not open minded individuals that allow parents to have an opinion.  Those doctors are dictators and honestly not the type of doctor I would want my child seeing.  What's going to happen if you ever disagree with that type of doctor?  They have already made it clear you must follow their rules or you are out.  What happens when they want a medical procedure done and you aren't okay with it?  Do you want a doctor who doesn't allow you to have an opinion?  I don't.  I know those doctors exist.  I work with them.  I won't take my possibly vax'd and possibly unvax'd children to them because I believe parents have rights and those rights include making decisions for their children.  A doctor should advice but to refuse treatment is, in my opinion, not ethical.  I will never refuse treatment of children because the parents don't agree with me.  I may ask them to sign a form stating our differences but I would never refuse care.


Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

Actually I'm not because Ive done research. Talked to the school. My friend is the same as me & I went with her when she went. Her son will be starting kindergarten there, I didnt say everyone lies but some do! Some do it so they don't have to vax & can still send their kids to school. It's my personal preference to not want my child around unvaxed kids like you don't care.. I do! And I'm allowed to feel that way! My dd's pediatrician will not see patients that refuse to vax.. Yes they can do that! If u don't want to vax your child or other moms don't that's fine their choice but I don't want my kids around them! I trust my vaccines but you never know what can happen & I'm not risking her being in contact right now with one of the diseases! I woud tell you the school but I don't like random people on the Internet to know my location but it's a school in Northern Alabama!

Quoting IrishIz:

Whoever said somebody would lie about an allergy?  If they have a true allergy you really think the school would turn them away?  I'd love to know the name of this school.  I honestly think you are pulling some of this out of your ass if I'm being honest.


Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

This particular school YES you can't go if your not vaxed! There is no way around it @ this school. People can't lie their way in saying its religious region or they are allergic when they r not or they really don't have it for a religious reason! Moms know this

Around here if their kids are not vaxed they do not try to attend this school!




Quoting IrishIz:

Um...what makes you think I can't send my kids to school without vaccines?  I can.  I've done it.  I also know kids in private schools who are not vaccinated.  Don't kid yourself into believing that a private school only allows vaccinated children.  If a child comes along who is allergic or has a medical condition do you think they will turn them away?  Oh you can bet they won't but they may not tell you that.

You can live in your fantasy world and I'll stick with reality.  I know my kids come in contact with all sorts of children...vax'd, unvax'd...and it's all good because I either A. believe in the vaccines my children get or B. am happy with my decision to skip vaccines and accept life without the vaccines.




ceckyl
by Silver Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 9:00 PM
So what does this school that you have no relation to have anything to do with you or your kid not being around unvaxed kids? You don't think they go to, gasp, parks?

Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

Did I say anywhere she attended school? No I said I went with my best friend who's son is starting kindergarten to talk to them with her! They have preschool aged kids though age 3&4 then 5 year olds start kindergarten and they have to be on the waiting list a year to be accepted so I did sign her up just in case I send her @ 3 which I'm sure I won't! And I don't know about government funding! I doubt they do most private schools don't I don't think

Quoting ceckyl:

Your under 2 year old child attends school? Interesting. Does this school receive government funding?



Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

Actually I'm not because Ive done research. Talked to the school. My friend is the same as me & I went with her when she went. Her son will be starting kindergarten there, I didnt say everyone lies but some do! Some do it so they don't have to vax & can still send their kids to school. It's my personal preference to not want my child around unvaxed kids like you don't care.. I do! And I'm allowed to feel that way! My dd's pediatrician will not see patients that refuse to vax.. Yes they can do that! If u don't want to vax your child or other moms don't that's fine their choice but I don't want my kids around them! I trust my vaccines but you never know what can happen & I'm not risking her being in contact right now with one of the diseases! I woud tell you the school but I don't like random people on the Internet to know my location but it's a school in Northern Alabama!

Quoting IrishIz:

Whoever said somebody would lie about an allergy?  If they have a true allergy you really think the school would turn them away?  I'd love to know the name of this school.  I honestly think you are pulling some of this out of your ass if I'm being honest.



Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

This particular school YES you can't go if your not vaxed! There is no way around it @ this school. People can't lie their way in saying its religious region or they are allergic when they r not or they really don't have it for a religious reason! Moms know this


Around here if their kids are not vaxed they do not try to attend this school!






Quoting IrishIz:

Um...what makes you think I can't send my kids to school without vaccines?  I can.  I've done it.  I also know kids in private schools who are not vaccinated.  Don't kid yourself into believing that a private school only allows vaccinated children.  If a child comes along who is allergic or has a medical condition do you think they will turn them away?  Oh you can bet they won't but they may not tell you that.

You can live in your fantasy world and I'll stick with reality.  I know my kids come in contact with all sorts of children...vax'd, unvax'd...and it's all good because I either A. believe in the vaccines my children get or B. am happy with my decision to skip vaccines and accept life without the vaccines.





Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't ask the kids she is around I know are vaxed because their parents tell me or ask me to make sure she is vaxed as well. She is home with me all the time except for the 3 little kids I keep. One is my cousins child & I've taken him for shots & other is my best friends child & I've taken both of them for shots! Other kids she is around is @ church in the nursery & they won't allow you in the nursery unless you are vaxed to keep the other kids safe. So that's 10 kids right there I know are vAxed. Other kids she is around are family & I know they r vaxed because they always share on Facebook when it's time to take their child for shots :). And you can't send your child to the private school or private preschool here without a full form of vaccination & they don't allow you to claim religion reasons or all that mess. If you don't vax you go to the other school so I won't have to keep her away from them in school cause they will all be vaxed. By the time she is older she will be stronger so if she comes in contact with all those "scary unvaxed kids" then maybe her immune system will fight off whatever they have if they have something! & I do know 4 kids who their mother don't vax and we do not come in contact with them







Quoting IrishIz:

You question the parent of every single child she is around?  If somebody questioned me because they felt they had a right to answers I wouldn't give them that information.  If you want to hold a nice conversation with me I will talk about it but I would never answer a friend (or stranger at the park) who thought she had the right to question me.  Good luck with staying away from those scary unvax'd kids.





Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I said I wouldn't WANT my child Around it but can't help if she is later on when she is in school but as of now her being yoUng the little kids she is around I KNOW are vaxed! I trust the vaccines but there is always still a chance! & she has abetted chance of not Catching it from vaxed kids









Quoting IrishIz:

If your children are vaccinated why are you afraid of the children that are not vaccinated? The reality is you have no way of knowing who is or isn't vaccinated...nor do you actually have any legal right to the information.











If you trust your vaccines...you have nothing to worry about.

















Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't understand why anyone would WANT their kids to get a virus or disease.. Or better yet carrying it and passing it along to other kids they r in contact with! I def would never want my child near any other kid not vaccinated










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RaLeighsMommy11
by Silver Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 9:01 PM
We don't go to parks unless it's the one @ our church (across the street from my mom) or we play on our playground out back..

Quoting ceckyl:

So what does this school that you have no ration to have anything to do with you or your kid not being around unvaxed kids? You don't think they go to, gasp, parks?




Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

Did I say anywhere she attended school? No I said I went with my best friend who's son is starting kindergarten to talk to them with her! They have preschool aged kids though age 3&4 then 5 year olds start kindergarten and they have to be on the waiting list a year to be accepted so I did sign her up just in case I send her @ 3 which I'm sure I won't! And I don't know about government funding! I doubt they do most private schools don't I don't think





Quoting ceckyl:

Your under 2 year old child attends school? Interesting. Does this school receive government funding?




Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

Actually I'm not because Ive done research. Talked to the school. My friend is the same as me & I went with her when she went. Her son will be starting kindergarten there, I didnt say everyone lies but some do! Some do it so they don't have to vax & can still send their kids to school. It's my personal preference to not want my child around unvaxed kids like you don't care.. I do! And I'm allowed to feel that way! My dd's pediatrician will not see patients that refuse to vax.. Yes they can do that! If u don't want to vax your child or other moms don't that's fine their choice but I don't want my kids around them! I trust my vaccines but you never know what can happen & I'm not risking her being in contact right now with one of the diseases! I woud tell you the school but I don't like random people on the Internet to know my location but it's a school in Northern Alabama!

Quoting IrishIz:

Whoever said somebody would lie about an allergy?  If they have a true allergy you really think the school would turn them away?  I'd love to know the name of this school.  I honestly think you are pulling some of this out of your ass if I'm being honest.



Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

This particular school YES you can't go if your not vaxed! There is no way around it @ this school. People can't lie their way in saying its religious region or they are allergic when they r not or they really don't have it for a religious reason! Moms know this


Around here if their kids are not vaxed they do not try to attend this school!






Quoting IrishIz:

Um...what makes you think I can't send my kids to school without vaccines?  I can.  I've done it.  I also know kids in private schools who are not vaccinated.  Don't kid yourself into believing that a private school only allows vaccinated children.  If a child comes along who is allergic or has a medical condition do you think they will turn them away?  Oh you can bet they won't but they may not tell you that.

You can live in your fantasy world and I'll stick with reality.  I know my kids come in contact with all sorts of children...vax'd, unvax'd...and it's all good because I either A. believe in the vaccines my children get or B. am happy with my decision to skip vaccines and accept life without the vaccines.





Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't ask the kids she is around I know are vaxed because their parents tell me or ask me to make sure she is vaxed as well. She is home with me all the time except for the 3 little kids I keep. One is my cousins child & I've taken him for shots & other is my best friends child & I've taken both of them for shots! Other kids she is around is @ church in the nursery & they won't allow you in the nursery unless you are vaxed to keep the other kids safe. So that's 10 kids right there I know are vAxed. Other kids she is around are family & I know they r vaxed because they always share on Facebook when it's time to take their child for shots :). And you can't send your child to the private school or private preschool here without a full form of vaccination & they don't allow you to claim religion reasons or all that mess. If you don't vax you go to the other school so I won't have to keep her away from them in school cause they will all be vaxed. By the time she is older she will be stronger so if she comes in contact with all those "scary unvaxed kids" then maybe her immune system will fight off whatever they have if they have something! & I do know 4 kids who their mother don't vax and we do not come in contact with them







Quoting IrishIz:

You question the parent of every single child she is around?  If somebody questioned me because they felt they had a right to answers I wouldn't give them that information.  If you want to hold a nice conversation with me I will talk about it but I would never answer a friend (or stranger at the park) who thought she had the right to question me.  Good luck with staying away from those scary unvax'd kids.





Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I said I wouldn't WANT my child Around it but can't help if she is later on when she is in school but as of now her being yoUng the little kids she is around I KNOW are vaxed! I trust the vaccines but there is always still a chance! & she has abetted chance of not Catching it from vaxed kids









Quoting IrishIz:

If your children are vaccinated why are you afraid of the children that are not vaccinated? The reality is you have no way of knowing who is or isn't vaccinated...nor do you actually have any legal right to the information.











If you trust your vaccines...you have nothing to worry about.

















Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:

I don't understand why anyone would WANT their kids to get a virus or disease.. Or better yet carrying it and passing it along to other kids they r in contact with! I def would never want my child near any other kid not vaccinated










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