Is it a bad thing that I have 5 kids and just gave birth last week and I want another baby?
I have 5. I'd love another. We won't have anymore because it's pretty much a given that any other children will also be "disabled". I have nothing against having disabled children (4 of my 5 are legally disabled). The reality is they become expensive. Our state provides secondary insurance for disabled kids and we would need it....so time to give up on having a "healthy" child.
I understand your desire to have more. If they are taken care of by you and not by others...have all you want.
Quoting aimesnyc:I don't know, I feel like it's a little bit unfair to the children you have already - especially your newborn. Enjoy the ones you have for now, and then see how you feel down the road.
Oh, and as for all of those "I don't care as long as I don't have to pay for your child" comments - well, I don't care how many you have as long as you love them all unconditionally and do your utmost to take care of them. It wouldn't bother me if any of my taxes went toward someone on PA with multiple kids as long as they are taking care of them and treating them with love and respect.
Some mothers are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same, and most mothers kiss and scold together. ~Pearl S. Buck
When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child. ~Sophia Loren, Women and Beauty
One should examine oneself for a very long time before thinking of condemning others. ~Moliere
I have 4 and couldn't imagine having another one! Super content but there is nothing wrong with wanting another baby
Baby led solids question
- sexymom902
on Jul. 31, 2012 at 6:03 PM