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what to do when your mans on drugs..

Posted by on Aug. 1, 2012 at 3:22 PM
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So my man has been doing Meth, I know the signs because IV seen people but I didn't even notice. Moneys been disappearing he sleeps when he's not working all the time. How do I handle this? He's asked for help but I don't know how.
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heartnhidin
by Bronze Member on Aug. 1, 2012 at 3:28 PM
He needs to go to rehab. Call around to different rehabs and see where has a bed. It can be hard to get him a bed so if you want to do it today or tomorrow take him to urgent care or the ER.
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abra
by Abra on Aug. 1, 2012 at 3:39 PM
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You leave for starters. Your baby I depending on you to protect them from that kind of thing. leave your guy the number and location of a place to help him.
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alandou
by April on Aug. 1, 2012 at 3:49 PM

wow, so sorry this is going on in your home. you def need to do some checking around and try to find some help for him. it's not a safe environment for you or your baby to be in. it's actually risking that your baby be taken away from you guys. are you sure he's even going to work when he's gone?

la_bella_vita
by Bella on Aug. 1, 2012 at 8:54 PM

 I am very anti-drugs, so I would leave. Just sharing my opinion. I may give him one chance to make a change but it's hard for me to say because I've never been in that place

TerriB0311
by Bronze Member on Aug. 1, 2012 at 9:00 PM
The fact that he is asking for help means he realizes there is a problem, which is the bright side. I would take him to the ER to have him start detoxing and get set up for a rehab program. He is a risk to you and your LO so I would leave until he completes treatment successfully. Hugs to you. Hope it all works out!
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Innocencedreams
by on Aug. 1, 2012 at 9:14 PM
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If I found out my husband was doing drugs, I would take our kids, leave him, and file for divorce. I won't put up with drugs, no second chances, nothing.
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jessicaaris
by Jessica on Aug. 1, 2012 at 9:15 PM


Quoting abra:

You leave for starters. Your baby I depending on you to protect them from that kind of thing. leave your guy the number and location of a place to help him.
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mommyakabooby
by Member on Aug. 1, 2012 at 9:16 PM
Yep. This right here, drugs are not something I will deal with. Ever.

Quoting Innocencedreams:

If I found out my husband was doing drugs, I would take our kids, leave him, and file for divorce. I won't put up with drugs, no second chances, nothing.
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cali_angel_girl
by Amy on Aug. 1, 2012 at 9:16 PM

I personally would leave because I wouldn't want my kids around someone who is doing drugs even if it is their father.

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jen6807
by Bronze Member on Aug. 1, 2012 at 9:26 PM
This exactly. Even if I loved him...I love my kids more!

Quoting mommyakabooby:

Yep. This right here, drugs are not something I will deal with. Ever.



Quoting Innocencedreams:

If I found out my husband was doing drugs, I would take our kids, leave him, and file for divorce. I won't put up with drugs, no second chances, nothing.
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