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Is it more exciting to find out the gender at the ultrasound or be surprised at birth?

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Have you done it both ways? What was more exiting?
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by on Oct. 2, 2012 at 7:31 PM
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by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 11:36 AM
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I think I'd like to try waiting, but my husband is definitly not a fan of that idea either. 

I've always found out at the 20 week ultrasound but next time, I think I want to have a gender reveal party. I like the idea of finding out in a fun sort of way instead of being in a sterile ultrasound room! I wish I had known to do that with my previous pregnancies!! I am creative, so I don't know why I didn't think of that myself! HA! 

I don't think I could wait though. 

With #4, she was breech until 36weeks & the ultrasound tech gave us this "pretty sure it's a girl" kind of thing--so it was interesting to kind of not know. My husband was sure. But everyone who saw me was like "its a boy"--so I just waited until she arrived to be sure! :) That is probably as close as I'll get to waiting until birth. I like to buy girly things or boy things & have a name picked out! 

Quoting tamidawn:

I would like to wait until birth because I think it would be soooo awesome! But dh says no! :/

by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 12:23 PM

 I wanted to know asap so Icould prepare as much as possible.


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by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 12:27 PM

We found out at U/S with both of ours because my husband wanted to know.  I wanted to wait till birth.  We compromised... found out sex at U/S, but did not tell anyone name choices till after baby was born.  That was fun in itself. It drove everyone NUTS.

by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 12:35 PM

I've only had one, but I'm glad we found out at the ultrasound. It was a boy and we had not even picked out a boy name we were so sure it was a girl!

by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 1:07 PM

I have the need to know. lol I think I might try to wait for the suprise next time we shall see.

by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 4:52 PM

 I prefer to find out before hand

by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 4:57 PM
I found out with my first but not with my second. We have a lot of gender neutral stuff anyway and figured that if we had a girl that would be a good reason to get out after the birth and go shopping.I had another boy though so I didn't have to buy anything. With the next baby we will be on team green yet again! I loved the surprise!
by on Oct. 4, 2012 at 12:05 AM

i found out with my first two, and then kept my third as a surprise. however, i had one of each, so i had boy and girl stuff stowed away to supplement all the gender neutral stuff. i LOVED not knowing. and we kept the name choices a surprise too, so family was doubly surprised. if i were to have another i would so do it again.

by on Oct. 4, 2012 at 12:06 AM

I have never had a choice with my babies, lol!   (no ultrasounds)

And it was AWESOME!!!

by on Oct. 4, 2012 at 12:07 AM

LOL I guess I figured it is a surprise, no matter when you find least if you do it early, you can tailor stuff to the baby.

So we did the ultrasound  

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