I'm 40 years old, and have two sets of twins. I have my first set of twins that I had when I was 16, on Decemeber 23 ( Tyler& Eve) - they are 24 now. I was with their father for the first 3 years, but then I moved and spent my 20s in night classes and working 2 jobs and raising my children as a single mom. I loved my life, but it was very difficult at times. When I was 32 I got married to my husband, and 6 months after Tyler&Eve went to college, I had my second set of twins with my husband. (Alessandra &Nate) I live in a completely different city then I did when I was raising Tyler&Eve, and now I'm married and have a stable life/job. Alessandra and Nate are now 6, and my husband and I are deciding if we want to have another child or two. I'm 40 and my doctor said it would be likely for me to have on, but probably not two. He wants more kids, but I'm not sure I want to start over a 3rd time, he hasn't been raising kids for 24 years. What are some things we can talk about to decide what is right for us? What did you talk about with your husband/partner before having more kids? I don't want to rush in to anything, but also don't have all the time in the world.
Thanks for muccch!!