A good time is when you are ready. For me I found that with my 3 children, 2-3 years apart is good.
I have a 6.5 year age gap. We were never sure we wanted a second child and I was in no hurry to have another one. I love it so far. He is a helper, they each have their own things, etc. I also feel like my first child had our focus and was not competing for attention as a toddler.
The best time is what you feel would be right for you and your family. What you want and what works for you is what's important. Everyone is going to have a different opinion on what they think the "best" age difference between children is.
I don't see how you could forget.. I say whenever you and your SO decide you're ready.
I'd say 3-5 years, but I'm not one to talk, haha
I don't pretend to know...it depends on what's going on in your life, what your current children are like, and all kind of other factors. We leave it up to Jesus knowing that we aren't going to be able to figure it out no matter how much we plan.I never expected to have 4 kids under 4, but that's what we have. It's hard, but I still believe it's what's right for us...each of our children is meant to be here and to have arrived when they did. I just do my best to take things in stride and live one day at a time.
Quoting angela.bouchard:I don't see how you could forget.. I say whenever you and your SO decide you're ready.
3 years has been perfect for my family... but I wouldn't personally go any closer than 2 years apart. 2-3 years is pretty ideal, IMO.
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