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Needing tips on shoes...

Posted by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 11:33 AM
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My daughter is getting close to being 11 months old and is beginning to walk. When we are out and about she wants to get down and walk around. She isn't use to shoes, which I guess is my fault. Never felt the need for her to wear them, until now that is...Well I bought her a new pair of shoes, and she throws a HUGE fit when I put them on. Kicks, screams, cries. When you stand her up, she won't move. The shoes fit her, and from what I can tell, shouldn't be hurting her in any way. I'm sure it's a HUGE change for her. Any tips on how to get her used to them?

Thanks in advance!

Posted by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 11:33 AM
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aniters
by Bronze Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 3:26 PM
DS hates shoes. He started walking at 9 months so I started buying shoes that have a flexible soles.
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emkirkley
by Silver Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:11 PM

http://www.unshod.org/pfbc/swc5.htm

We don't do shoes until they are walking well at home, so getting down at places other than an indoor play place or the grass at the park doesn't happen until around a year for us.  After that, we only use skidders and robeez type shoes and only when absolutely necessary.  Being barefoot as often as possible is the best thing for development of proper walking stride, foot/ankle strength and lower leg strength.

iansmommy9
by Natasha on Jan. 5, 2013 at 10:56 PM

I agree.  Stride Rite makes a great soft shoe for early walking. It's flexible and comfly. These are the only shoes DS wears. He has a wide foot and they have the best selection I've found.

Have her measured.

Quoting Mazie0723:

Our kids get a pair of Stride rite shoes for their first birthday. They are not cheap but imo worth it. Maybe the shoes are too tight width wise.


SaraSnider
by Bronze Member on Jan. 6, 2013 at 12:10 AM
My dd hated shoes for a bit. I got her a pair of vary soft pumpas she learned to like then in about 3 weeks. I did start her at 9 months( when she started walking). I would put them on for a few mins about 5 times a day, i acted all excited bout them. I also would show her how i was putting on my socks and shoes acting like it was o so fun lol
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angela.bouchard
by Angela on Jan. 6, 2013 at 1:29 AM

I use stride rite shoes for my son. He got a pair of nikes for his 1st birthday and he couldn't ever wear them because they were too narrow, and the soles were flat and solid. 

Turtledoves
by Ruby Member on Jan. 6, 2013 at 10:10 AM
Honestly, my dd would not wear any shoes I got her until I took her to the store and let her pick out her own. Her first pair was a soft soled fully glittered pink shoe, and she wore those fine until she grew out of them. Took her back to the store and she got light up princess sneakers. This little 18 month old is obsessed with light up sneakers! Only real shoe she'll agree to wear.
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