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Me time

Posted by on Jan. 15, 2013 at 2:21 PM
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Since i move to a new apartment with my hubby and our son i would be more time at home and alone which i dont mind actually i like being alone with my son the thing is now how can have me time with him around like i said i like being alone with my son but theres at time i want some me time not long just 10 or 15 minutes but Im scared to leave him in his crib while im making some food or taking a shower or doing some house cleaning what can i do?!
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miley113012
by Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 6:22 PM
I always need my time Im 25 and i went from getting my nails done all the time doing my make up fixing my hair every morning now i have cut back alot i always get my shower if i wake up before she does but my mom comes once a week to have me time its great :-) least i can look my best once a week..well try...
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YzmaRocks
by Gold Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 6:25 PM
Back carry while cooking is safe, just no front carries :)

Quoting CristoC:

You can wear him, But NEVER while you are COOKING, that could pose a serious danger to you and your little one, You can leave him on the swing and put a paci on him, or make a nice tidy nest on the floor, 9never in high plces) and set him down while you are doing stuff around the house... Its always safer to leave him in the crib while you are showering.    You will get used to the mommy routine...  you can get something to wear him like a wrap, sling or carrier anywhere online or BRUS,, if you ae looking for a handme down"" or something cheaper try craigslist or ebay...


I hope it works and relax!  :) 

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redivy29
by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 7:44 AM

Yes, try getting a baby carrier. You can do a lot while wearing your baby and many times they just fall asleep next to you. I've tried the BabyBjorn, Moby wrap and Ergo. The Ergo is the most expensive but the best for your back! And kids can use it until they are 2+ years old.

Also there's nothing wrong with leaving your baby in the crib or on a mat (if they aren't mobile) while you take a monitor with you so you can shower. That phase doesn't last long - once they start moving around, watch out!

I have 13 month old twins who keep the same sleep schedule.  So now I have to shower/clean house, etc., while they are napping. That's a whole hour (sometimes more!) to get things done. Good luck!

jessicaaris
by Jessica on Jan. 17, 2013 at 7:52 AM

I agree, nap time is the best time to relax for a few minutes.

Quoting la_bella_vita:

 I've always had me time while baby is napping...or my husband would sit with the baby. 10 minutes always refreshed me so I know what you mean : )



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