Would you be mad if your MIL took your baby for their 1st birthday pictures before you could?

LIVID!!!!
It would be a LONG time before my child saw them.
I am a photo person so they KNOW how much that shit upsets me!!

Yea, I would be upset. That's just rude IMO.

Yes. It would be different if you didn't have an appointment but just to go behind your back...I'd be ticked off. But my mil sent out birthday invites to my oldest 1st bday without even letting me know and I got an invite for my own daughter's bday party.

Not if she paid for them. Now you have double the pics:)
my mil doesn't have DS alone ever though.

My ex mil did! I was so pissed and let my exdh know it! They knew that I wanted to do it and still pulled that shit.

No. I would just do two shoots.

I'd be pissed!!!!
There are something's that should be a parents thing.
She had her chance to be a mom and get all those firsts.

Nope
I would thank her and save my money.

Some things just aren't worth getting upset over

No it would be stupid let her take her photos and pay for them u get yours done its not a big deal that's her grand kid if she wants to do something special let her don't make her feel like shit for it u will get 2 sets of amazing photos my mother inlaw bought alot of my kids first that I wanted to first tricycle and much more I know she does because she loves them like there her own u should be thank full u got a mother inlaw that wants to do stuff for her grand kids some people have no one

I don't know if it was something she was doing to intentionally antagonize me I probably be mad but if it was something she Was doing just be nice maybe I wouldn't so much





Of course I love photos of my kids so the more the merrier!!





I just keep thinking of that 1 episode of Everybody Loves Raymond where Marie was take the boys for haircuts and told Debra in such a snotty and rude way