Maybe this is just a vent as well as asking for some help. My daughter is 9 weeks old and very fussy. We are doing the 5s's, which seem to work, but always puts her to sleep. I feel like when is crying and fussy that when I swaddle her to begin the 5s's that it's like a punishment. Maybe that is just me. I dont know if I am doing something wrong? Maybe she just doesn't like me? I have finally got her to sleep during the day with some naps, which has helped a little. At this age roughly how much should they sleep? I am BF, so how much should they be eating? I feel like we have a good couple of days, and then BAM we have taken steps backwards. Ideas, suggestions??? Thanks ladies.