See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
(let me start by saying I breastfeed and have spent the first 4 months everyday with my son, so we've gotten very close and I know him, his crys, and how to calm him pretty well by now) now to the issue. Sometimes my when I'm really exhusted my husband will try to help by taking the 5 am shift to let me get a little extra sleep. which is very sweet unfortunatly our son just ends up screaming in his face and wont eat. He tries everything, all the S's (swaddle, shush,sway,ect) singing, talking, adele( which always works for me) this morning he tried for two hours. Usuall I will give him about 20 mins then if he wont stop i'll go out to help. which kills my husband because i'll take oliver and he stop crying then I give him the breast and he'll start eating. it's rally starting to hurt my husband he feels our son hates him. which we all know isn't true. But I don't know how to make him feel better. To make it harder my husband usually works 10-12 hour days which sometimes means our son is asleep beforehe gets home. Any suggestions? cause mine aren't working