I didn't even know it was here! My youngest is 12 years old, was 11 when I joined cafemom, so I never even looked, and it was never in my recommended groups! I still don't have a baby, but I am pregnant, I'm due 2/1/14, so I will have a baby! It will make for 5 kids for my husband and I. Our others are 12, 14, 15, and 17. My husband and I have been married almost 7 years. We have a very unconventional family, I am 25, and only my youngest is biologically mine, but they're all our kids nevertheless. A few weeks before finding out about this pregnancy we had decided that my husband would be getting a vasectomy. We've had two early miscarriages, and then a still birth four years ago, and I didn't want to try again. Needless to say, this pregnancy came as a total shock! It will be our first baby together, and so far, so good. I'm 14 weeks and baby looks perfect, but mom isn't doing so hot. I'm in the hospital for the second time. I hope it's ok that I joined before I actually have my baby :) I just saw the group and thought, hey, I can use that! It's been 12 years since I've done the whole baby thing, though I have a lot of practice with newborns, I'm an RN and work in labor and delivery, or did. I just switched to working in the ER part time, and going to one day a week in L&D, though I may have to postpone that transition, with my health problems and everything that is going on.