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Breastfeeding Mom Told to 'Use a Bottle' & Report for Jury Duty

Posted by on Feb. 23, 2015 at 8:43 AM
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Breastfeeding Mom Told to 'Use a Bottle' & Report for Jury Duty

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One of the most frustrating things about being a breastfeeding mom is being given advice by people who don't know anything about breastfeeding. Usually, though, such unsolicited counsel comes from well-meaning people you can brush off with a roll of the eyes -- your mother-in-law, your childless aunt, your busybody neighbor. It's quite a different story when it's a court of law that's telling you how to feed your kid ... so you don't have to skip jury duty.

That's what happened to Scottish mom Aileen Robertson, much to her completely justified chagrin. Robertson's son Isaac was only a few weeks old when she got a letter in the mail telling her to report for jury duty. Since potentially spending all day, every day for an unspecified amount of time in a courtroom is a fairly impractical course of action for the mother of a newborn, Robertson filed for an exemption, fully expecting to be let off the hook (at least until her son was a little older). Instead, what she got was another letter, telling her to ... report for jury duty. Sigh. So, naturally, Robertson called up the court to find out what the problem was, and to explain that because she was breastfeeding, she couldn't leave her infant son. What did the court say? 

"Use a bottle."

USE A BOTTLE?! Um, thanks for the helpful idea, court official. Notice I said "court official" and not "medical professional." As in, where do these people get off giving breastfeeding advice? Some babies (like Isaac Robertson, for example, and my daughter) simply will not take a bottle. Just will not. Take. A bottle. What would the court suggest parents do in that situation? 

The court official Robertson spoke with said she would need a doctor's note to be excused, which, in fairness, probably wouldn't be tremendously hard to obtain, but it shouldn't be necessary. And since then, the Scottish Court Service has backpedaled big-time, saying Robertson was "given incorrect information from a court worker:"

"It is not our policy to request a medical certificate to support a request for excusal on the grounds of breastfeeding and we apologize for any suggestion that one is required."

So, there's that (too little, too late?). But if I were Robertson, I'd still be peeved. And this is just (more) proof that our society still doesn't fully support or understand breastfeeding. Will it ever?

Did you ever get called for jury duty while breastfeeding? What did you do?

 

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by on Feb. 23, 2015 at 8:43 AM
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cupcake_mom
by on Feb. 23, 2015 at 8:44 AM
I have never been called for jury duty lol. *knocks on wood*
Mom2Just1
by Platinum Member on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:03 AM
I have. Expemption was made. My kids refuse bottles a well.
la_bella_vita
by on Feb. 23, 2015 at 12:31 PM

I have but I got an exemption. 

kajira
by Bronze Member on Feb. 23, 2015 at 12:35 PM

I've been called for jury duty, but i've never had a problem being excused/excempt.

Turtledoves
by Ruby Member on Feb. 23, 2015 at 12:41 PM

I did, but I told them I was exclusively breastfeeding my baby and they didn't make me go. 

I don't know what I'd do for this, neither of my babies would ever take a bottle or pacifier. 

miisha
by Member on Feb. 23, 2015 at 12:44 PM
No. I can't be called for jury duty.
RocknRoll.Rose
by Bronze Member on Feb. 24, 2015 at 1:36 AM
Our society? Wasn't this in Scotland? My twins took the breast and a bottle but there was no way in hell I would have left them so soon. Breast feeding or not, the mother shouldn't be forced to leave her baby so soon.
AngelLovingLife
by Gold Member on Feb. 24, 2015 at 2:02 AM
I was called while pregnant. I got out of it because I was sick and in the hospital.
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MixedCooke
by on Feb. 24, 2015 at 2:10 AM

no but I do pump and I was called for duty and i did explain the fact that I was in pain for not being able to go pump during the process and they did dismiss me.  I have training coming up in May that is all day, so I am worried about how lenient they will be about allowing me time to pump for my baby as well and how to keep the milk.

DisabledVet
by on Feb. 24, 2015 at 3:19 AM

Explained that unless they wanted me breastfeeding my child in the jury box they'd need to excuse me. And they did.

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