So I am sitting at home today as I am on maternity leave and I get a call from my daycare provider asking if I could bring my (almost) two year old some extra clothes because she had an accident with her dress she went to daycare in this morning. I said sure not a big deal as my daycare is only about a mile from our home. When I arrived at my daycare I was informed by my provider that per her policy my daughter is not 2 yet (her bday is sept 15) and she will not allow her to wear pull-ups at her house bc she had gone into the bathroom and tried to go potty by herself in which she had already started going in her pull up so needless to say she made a huge mess in the bathroom. My thoughts are where was she that my daughter was able to do all of this without her noticing b4 it was a big mess. I am torn as for how to handle this situation bc my dd wears pull-ups at home and we never have any problems except an accident occasionally. I really don't feel that my provider should be telling me weather or not my child can wear pull-ups at her house last time I checked she was my daughter and that was my choice. I am not sure how to approach the issue with her. My dh thinks I am overreacting here and that its not a big deal but we just had a new baby and if we could get our daughter out of diapers all together that would be great..... Any thoughts????????