i have a 3 yr old 1 yr old and a 7 wk old. my boys dont listen no matter what i do, i've tried spanking, time outs, the corner, u name it i did it. except abuse of coarse. i just cant get them to listen to me. they hit each other, throw things, jump on my couch. u name it if its bad they do. i know i have to realize they r just kids but a mom can only take so much. jamie wakes up every couple hours to eat, does it for about 30 min falls back asleep then i fall asleep 45 min later then turning around and wakin up again. whats the secret. what do i do. im afraid i'm goin to snap one of these days. i would never hurt my kids or nothing but i think i will pull my hair out.