My name is Ashley and on Friday my William will be a month old. My family hasnt really gotten to see him at all because I have been going through some emotional issues. My cousin is gettingmarried next Saturday. I talked to boyfriend about it. The only way I was going to drag little man to the wedding was if Boyfriend wanted to go. He doesn't and I really dont want to go. The day before the wedding I am scheduled for my 6 week checkup and they are imputing my IUD. I really dont respond well to giving blood. But I dont want to use my health as an excuse anymore and it would hurt them even further to know that I'm not going just becuase I dont want to go. I dont want to lie but I dont want to hurt their feelings. I told my sister that I didnt think we would be going becuase of my 6 week check up being the day before. Is that a valid excuse or do you think I need to just fess up that I dont want to go and deal with the guilt trip now rather than later? All opinions are appreciated even if others see it as rude. Thanks!