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This waiting is killing me!!!!

sparklebug86

posted to General Discussion in Pregnancy
on Nov. 5, 2009 at 7:58 AM

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The dr wont see me until nov 16th to confirm my pregnancy. I had waiting this long. Since I havent gotten to see anything yet i keep worrying that something is wrong or maybe my home tests were off or 1000 other scenarios Yesterday I was having sharp pains in my shoulder so i called the dr freaking out that maybe I had an ectopic pregnancy. The nurse kindly explained that I was also be having pain in my abdoment if this worse the care (which I dont.) I thought the second time around would be different with all of the worrying but its not! :(

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Written by on Nov. 5, 2009 at 7:58 AM

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  • Leeann3110
  • by on Nov. 5, 2009 at 9:14 AM
  • Dont worry mama, You will be able to confirm in no time, but stressing about every little pain isnt gonna make things better for you. Im on my 3rd pregnancy and yes I have worried just as much with this one as I did with my other 2 and they have all turned out to be just fine. Its not much longer to wait hope that everything goes great for you! 

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  • haileysmom15
  • by on Nov. 5, 2009 at 10:46 AM
  • Just try to relax and don't worry about it so much. I know that it is easier said then done but you have to try to stay calm. How many home pregnancy tests did you take that said you were pregnant? I had soooo many pains so far with this pregnancy from the minute I found out I was pregnant....  Its only about a week and a half away until your appt.  Just stay calm until then, or if you really want to get in sooner, maybe try looking for another doctor... But you should be fine... Keep us posted..

     

    Congrats by the way!

  • sparklebug86
  • by on Nov. 5, 2009 at 11:25 AM
  • maybe next week ill get another one. I took a third one earlier this week right before I made the appt. Im so bloated and still no period so there is no doubt that im pregnant!

    Quoting gacgbaker:

    Oh no!  I hate having to wait for something like this, and waiting that long can take a toll on you!  So sorry... are you able to go to the store for another test or something that would help ease your mind? 


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  • sparklebug86
  • by on Nov. 5, 2009 at 11:26 AM
  • I had three positive tests (one being a dollar store test) and still no period and way past due so i would say im pregnant....just hate not being able to see.

    Quoting haileysmom15:

    Just try to relax and don't worry about it so much. I know that it is easier said then done but you have to try to stay calm. How many home pregnancy tests did you take that said you were pregnant? I had soooo many pains so far with this pregnancy from the minute I found out I was pregnant....  Its only about a week and a half away until your appt.  Just stay calm until then, or if you really want to get in sooner, maybe try looking for another doctor... But you should be fine... Keep us posted..

     

    Congrats by the way!


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  • kemmerer411
  • by on Nov. 5, 2009 at 11:50 AM
  • Dont worry! I know it sucks to wait.... I had to wait to see the doc for like 3 weeks after I took the hpt. But stressing wont help you any. Take folic acid/prenatal vits if you havent been... eat well.. and get lots of rest! Thats all you can do! Just relax... your appointment will be here in no time. And trust me (I am 38 weeks) the waiting is just going to continue for the months to come! lol. Good luck Momma!

  • ElijahsMom211
  • by on Nov. 5, 2009 at 12:43 PM
  • Don't worry, the 16th is right around the corner. You'll be able to confirm in NO time, tho the worrying won't go anywhere. I just had an u/s and I've been worrying EVERY SINGLE WEEK that something's not right, but everytime I go to my check up/u/s everything is perfect.. Try not to stress too hard and just try to enjoy the fact that you ARE pregnant..

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