Can I Get Pregnant This way? Or am I just a little bit desperate?
So last night, me and DH had sex right? Well he has been using condoms ever since I had a miscarriage about 2 weeks ago(my husband does not want to get pregnant again right now). For the first time since the miscarriage my husband decides not to wear a condom. Well after I reach my peak, he reaches his, and pulls out and shoots it all over my leg..lol..sorry for this gross scenario. It was like a river on my leg. Well I scoop most of it up and push it as far up my vagina as possible. Do you think that I will get pregnant this way?Is it possible? Am I just desperate, or is it just me trying to recoop from the miscarriage. My emotions are so screwed up right now! please no bashing, i just need comments and concerns.
p.s. sorry for the mental image! We are all adults here
yumm, yes you could get preganant with out doing that *its true* when they say the pull out mythod dose not work pre ejaculation already happened BUT...depending on how far along you were when you misscarried there is a high chance that your body isnt even ovulated yet ......... Hope it happens for you :-)
i think if ur husband is usng comdoms and pulling out, and he doesnt want kids you shouldnt be plotting against him to get pregnant. thats rude, selfish, and inconsiderate. if he is not ready to handle another pregnancy, you should be respectful enough to wait. and you miscarriaged only two weeks ago? give your body some time to "heal" and get pregnant when you are both ready and not trying to fill the void of the lost baby. which by the way is sad and im sorry to hear that. but when you are both ready, i wish u the best of luck!
I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks along and it took me 7 months after that to get pregnant again. You should do what feels right for you. Yes, you can get pregnant like that although the chances are slim. We had a hard time getting pregnant and I tried some different ways and finally found one that worked! By the way, you are not desperate, that was very rude for someone to say. Obviously anyone who says that has never been through a miscarriage. It is a very tough time. I felt like I needed to get pregnant asap because I wanted to be pregnant before my angel babys due date. There isnt anything wrong with that. Message me if you want to talk more about this. By the way, my husband didnt ever want to get pregnant again because he was so hurt about the loss but didnt want to directly say that. Its normal for them to grieve in that way. So sorry for your loss.
That is a myth:
Sperm can live in the air for upto 15 mins and in the host of another body for 72 hours........Another nasty fact is that sperm can live in the protection of a condom for upto an hr.
You can get pregnant by *dry humping* *no penitration* so of course sperm can live out side of the body for a period of time...
Quoting rileysmommy229:i have always heard when sperm hits air it dies.
LOL Ok how is *useing the pull out method* trying to prevent pregnancy what are we in jr high??????????? THAT DOSSE NOT WORK this is not pervention so obviously he must not be to worried about the whole pregnancy issue or he wouldnt even attempt that. So he alrady took the chance of pregnancy being a possiblity (((((sorry but it is true))))))
Quoting mOm2bOyS_nY:i think if ur husband is usng comdoms and pulling out, and he doesnt want kids you shouldnt be plotting against him to get pregnant. thats rude, selfish, and inconsiderate. if he is not ready to handle another pregnancy, you should be respectful enough to wait. and you miscarriaged only two weeks ago? give your body some time to "heal" and get pregnant when you are both ready and not trying to fill the void of the lost baby. which by the way is sad and im sorry to hear that. but when you are both ready, i wish u the best of luck!
Your husband is trying to recover from your miscarriage as well. Give him time to heal. AND give yourself time to heal. I couldn't imagine being in your shoes or anyones who has miscarried. I wish you the best. Just try and be patient... it's not fair for your husband for you to be doing this. But yes, you could get pregnant that way.
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i know it doesnt work. im not 5 lol.. but oviously her man thinks it works. since he doesnt want to get her pregnant and thats his method. i just think if he wanted her to get prego again he would just cum inside her
Quoting girlenvy:
LOL Ok how is *useing the pull out method* trying to prevent pregnancy what are we in jr high??????????? THAT DOSSE NOT WORK this is not pervention so obviously he must not be to worried about the whole pregnancy issue or he wouldnt even attempt that. So he alrady took the chance of pregnancy being a possiblity (((((sorry but it is true))))))
Quoting mOm2bOyS_nY:
i think if ur husband is usng comdoms and pulling out, and he doesnt want kids you shouldnt be plotting against him to get pregnant. thats rude, selfish, and inconsiderate. if he is not ready to handle another pregnancy, you should be respectful enough to wait. and you miscarriaged only two weeks ago? give your body some time to "heal" and get pregnant when you are both ready and not trying to fill the void of the lost baby. which by the way is sad and im sorry to hear that. but when you are both ready, i wish u the best of luck!
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