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Posted by on Nov. 16, 2009 at 8:08 PM
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we just found out my brother in laws girlfriend is having a tubal pregnancy and will have to terminate. we are all upset and very sry about it but my husband it taking it extremley hard.  i have tried to tell him that things happen sometimes and you cant do anything. 

what can i do to help him? 

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KairisMama
by on Nov. 16, 2009 at 8:09 PM

All you can do is give words of comfort, and remind him that he and his wife can try again when the time is right.  

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housefullofkidz
by on Nov. 16, 2009 at 8:10 PM

Oh that is tough. I would just be very sensitive to them and the situation. When I had a miscarriage people actually sent  cards to let me know they cared. It's tough territory for sure.

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ashleywilkerson
by on Nov. 16, 2009 at 9:10 PM


Quoting KairisMama:

All you can do is give words of comfort, and remind him that he and his wife can try again when the time is right.  

i have tried but its my husband taking so hard not them. thats what im having issues with. they are taking hard of course but my husband has made himself sick over it.

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Lullaby527
by on Nov. 16, 2009 at 9:36 PM

I think it's important to find out what it is about the situation that is huring your husband so bad.  It may be that he treasures the children that you have created and is grieving for his sister for not being able to experience that right now.  There's got to be something more to it at the bottom of things.... give him love and an ear that's willing to listen. 

sandraberke
by on Nov. 16, 2009 at 9:49 PM

as with any loss you have to have proper time to grieve.

plus maybe hes upset thinking something might happen to yours. . .

try and just reassure him. and keep a postive outlook. 

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