So, I feel really bad for my husband, but i'm TOTALLY afraid to have sex! I had a complicated first pregnancy and I'm afraid something is gonna happen. I know, i'm prob being irrational. Sad part is, I WANT to have sex, and i KNOW my husband wants it, i just don't want anything to happen...
Any advice?!
It's totally understandable with your past. I would just take it slow and easy.
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Mine is deployed and I SO wish I could! I say if he's home go for it- Like the pp said, just make sure you take it slow until you know things are ok. So long as this pregnancy hasn't had any issues I really wouldn't worry about it, thats what sent me into labor when I was full-term with my dd! Now once I was in my last trimester it did start up brackston (sp?) hicks, but nothing serious. Just didn't want you worrying if you Did do something and then had some pre-contractions hit ya. Good luck! I would sooooooo go for it if I had the opportunity!
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I want one more!!!
- lillsmom2
on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:44 PM