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most likely just hormones but hey im pregnant(vent)

Posted by on Jan. 3, 2010 at 11:27 PM
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so i went and stayed at my parents house last night and got home like  maybe around 6pm and i got on my computer  now i wanted to watch a video  david after the dentist  i dont kno if any of u have seen that vid but the kid in the video is so silly  it makes me laugh everytime so i went into my history on youtube and a bunch of  butts pop up so my husband was watching all these videos of girls wearing next to nothing now i wouldnt mind but instead of saying yea i watched them he tries to make excuses and that makes me a little angry so i am giving him the silent treatment  he would get all upset  if i was looking up guys on the internet as if i dont already feel  like a hefer my belly is huge and ill be 26 weeks tomorrow  i feel horrible  and unsexy as it is and he has to resort to looking at other women ugh so frustrating im sorry for venting on all of u but geez come on now  if he wants to see boobs and booty im more then willing to give it to him i might not be able to swing around a pole at the moment  but i can do other things  im willing thats what makes me mad too i dunno like i said its most likely my hormones

by on Jan. 3, 2010 at 11:27 PM
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kittin002002
by on Jan. 3, 2010 at 11:31 PM

guys can be so stupid sometimes.  they dont realize by telling the truth they will get in so much Less trouble then when they lye

drakesmom2007
by on Jan. 3, 2010 at 11:33 PM

and another thing its my youtube account he is doing it on like i want that crap on my account its so gross

MeganRoane915
by on Jan. 3, 2010 at 11:36 PM

That would definitely bug me also. I dont know why they think we wouldnt care or that it shouldnt bug us. We are carrying their child and we are going through a lot and getting bigger by the day. And they turn around and do stuff like that. Ugh. Im mad at him for you.

ginipassionlady
by on Jan. 4, 2010 at 2:09 PM

I'd be mad too.  My hubby has finally learned how to erase the history so at least I don't know for sure he is looking... or rather when he is looking and at what...  Fact is that no matter how much we might be uncomfortable with it (because of our own insecurity being preggo) men are visual.  Most likely he was "browsing" because you weren't home.  Good luck hon, and just remember that sexy comes from inside, and confidence makes men hornier than any random booty.

btw, I am a Passion Parties consultant, and we have a TON of things you could use to spark up your bedroom, even while your preggo.  Contact me privately at giniwinget@hotmail.com.

 

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http://www.ginimcelvy.yourpassionconsultant.com


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StarMommy06
by on Jan. 4, 2010 at 2:12 PM

I agree. I think I would be MUCH more angry that he was lying.

Quoting kittin002002:

guys can be so stupid sometimes.  they dont realize by telling the truth they will get in so much Less trouble then when they lie



drakesmom2007
by on Jan. 4, 2010 at 2:54 PM

thank u ladies all ur replies have helped me out alot

drakesmom2007
by on Jan. 4, 2010 at 2:56 PM


Quoting ginipassionlady:

I'd be mad too.  My hubby has finally learned how to erase the history so at least I don't know for sure he is looking... or rather when he is looking and at what...  Fact is that no matter how much we might be uncomfortable with it (because of our own insecurity being preggo) men are visual.  Most likely he was "browsing" because you weren't home.  Good luck hon, and just remember that sexy comes from inside, and confidence makes men hornier than any random booty.

btw, I am a Passion Parties consultant, and we have a TON of things you could use to spark up your bedroom, even while your preggo.  Contact me privately at giniwinget@hotmail.com.

 

thanx i have came to that conclusion that he was browsing cuz i wasnt here i even had a talk with him and told him why it made me upset that he can do it when im gone but not when im here he knows i dont mind  him watching porn i even enjoy watching porn with him so he has no reason to be secretive about it so thank u agian

chance010507
by on Jan. 4, 2010 at 3:02 PM

i would recommend buying a book. its called "secrets of happily married women"  it is really insightful and helps you do very little to get your way. it also has a brother book for the husbands. it has helped me avoid so many silly moments and kept my blood pressure low. it will help you get into their heads as to why they lie and what you can do about it. you can also use this to your advantage and find new ways to spice things up by checking out what he is checking out ya know. But i also think lying about it is worse than the act itself and that bugs me alot. i wish you the best.

Brittany.Dann
by on Jan. 4, 2010 at 3:04 PM

I feel you. I have noticed my husband going to Hooters alot more lately and his excuse was his brothers in town and likes to eat there. But my husband has talked about some of the waitresses, he knows them by name. He even knew that yesterday was a particular ones birthday. I know its stupid and it means nothing but it still hurts. I feel unsexy too. So to know he gets enjoyment out of a place where they serve your food wearing next to nothing and get their tips from flirting with you, it does hurt and does bother me. 

CheyanneW
by on Jan. 4, 2010 at 3:13 PM

Guys are visual.  So don't get upset about that just the lying.  He was probably just afraid that you would be mad and he wanted to avoid an argument.  Men sometimes dont realize that avoiding arguments can also cause them.  I used to get really upset and jealous and what my husband looked at until I talked with a friend about it and she said her husband was the same way.  This girl was drop dead gorgeous with large implants and all.  If even her husband still looked I realized it had nothing to do with what I looked like.  It probably has nothing to do with you being pregnant.  Believe me even if you were model perfect they will still look.  I am fine with that an we have a much better marriage.  Just as long as he looks and only looks.  wink mini

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