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Feeling so alone!

Posted by on Jan. 18, 2010 at 10:59 AM
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I so can't stand FAKE friend's! All it comes down to in life is honestly family. But, I wouldn't change that for anything in the world. I love my kid's and my husband! I just wish sometimes there was someone else to talk to or see besides kid talk all the time lol. I feel being a stay at home mom is best, but also stressful because I need someone to talk to too. However, the friends I have just use me and want me to baby sit. Because of the person I am, I'd do anything for anyone! I just hate feeling all alone. I wish I had someone who understood me, or just was a good enough friend. But, I guess growing up and having a family takes everyone away. It's how they seem to act. Blah sorry for the vent!

Chasity - Wife to Corey 11.18.2006 - Mommy to Brayson Matthew 05.31.2007 & Landon Keith 09.05.2008 & Kelsey Addison EDD 03.27.2010!
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2ndTymeMommy
by on Jan. 18, 2010 at 11:16 AM

 Hey Mama! I know how you feel.  I'm just like you...willing to do anything for anybody but usually those people only hang around til they don't need me anymore.  I have one really good friend I was fortunate to meet about 2 yrs ago...but I don't see her all that often (she just had another baby and we live a little ways from each other and my not having a vehicle makes her responsible for all the driving---which she doesn't always have time to do) and miss her greatly.

I'm on bedrest and haven't really seen anybody for about 2 months now...so I definitely know about lonely.  Family, DH and our DD is always enough for me---but sometimes you just need a girl friend---know what I mean? :)

If you'd like, we could attempt to be friends.  I don't know where you live, but if it's far away from me---I'm always available by email, facebook or on here.

Let me know if this is something you'd like to pursue---cuz i think it could be really great! :)

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mommy2xp
by on Jan. 18, 2010 at 11:17 AM

i feel the same way! for now i'm just trying to focus on being happy on my own with my kids. if i find a friend then that's great but it wont be because i'm desperate for one that's usually when i make the bad friends anyway

mwilt
by on Jan. 18, 2010 at 11:22 AM

i completly understand also. i love my dh but he doesnt talk much (just his personality) and i too am a stay at home momma. me and the girls have so much fun but  i wish i had a good friend to hang with sometimes. i have one close friend. shes married too and has 2 kids also. we used to hang out  alot but it seems like when we go out i have to pay for her dinner or movie tcket and i dont even get a thank you. i dont mind but i really dont have the money either! i would give anything to find a good friend that i can rely on, but can pay for herself!!! good luck! 

mcghee03
by on Jan. 18, 2010 at 11:27 AM

 I'm in the same boat. If it wasn't for my mom and sisters - (In add. to hubby ) I would be pretty much alone. I do have some girlfriends, but they are all alot older than me and there kids  are all  teenagers, so they are just in a different stage of live - I know if I really needed them they would be there butit isn;t like having someone in the same stage of life to understand what you are going thru

Real friends are way to far and few to be found.

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