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What a CREEPER....

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 3:45 PM
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 Okay, so hubby has this friend (I'll call him Mike).... well, he's always been kinda awkward. I don't really know how to explain it without comming off rude, so I'll just say it... he has short man syndrom.... he feels the need to compensate for everything and is just kinda weird.... well anyways, we went to another friend's b-day party saturday night. We are all standing there talking and then Mike starts talking to me and decides he's going to start touching me stomach (almost 18 weeks pregnant) and he's like rubbing it going oh do you know what it is yet? I'm really good at this and starts moving his hand down some like on the bottom side of my stomach, like where I button up my jeans.... well, I moved back quickly and he seemed offended and then he just sort of walked away. Then not even 10mintues later, I'm sitting tlaking to some people and he comes up and trys to sit on my lap, and I'm like OH HELL NO, and my hubby's like the only people allowed to sit on her lap are me and the kids, and he trys to sit down again and says well, "I'm like a kid, hehehe" in a sexual inuendo way.... Is this all TOO CREEPY or what???

My hubby didn't say anything about it after we left, but he had been drinking quite a bit, so probably didn't even notice, but SERIOUSLY.... what a CREEPO!!! Should I say something to hubby???

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meam4444
by Emerald Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 3:50 PM

wow!  ive smacked guys before who have done crap like that to me even when i was single.  im surprised your hubby didnt do anything.  yea i would definately say something to your hubby.  creeepo!  that isnt even little man syndrome...it is pervert syndrome

Pandapanda
by Amber on Feb. 9, 2010 at 3:52 PM

Uh, yeah. Make sure you say something to your hubby about it because that's WAY out of line! I'd be seriously creeped out. It doesn't matter if he's little or not- that's still inappropriate. I've slapped guys for doing less.

ElijahsMom211
by Platinum Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 3:52 PM

YES!!!! I'm sorry but that is TOTALLY creepy and if that guy were to try that w/me I would've smacked him Or just pushed him off and then showered 5times.. BLECH!!

ilovebabies4
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 3:54 PM
I would it is way to creepy
orange4agua72
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 3:56 PM

My hubby honestly wasn't there when he was touching my belly and didn't hear the comment, so he really didn't know anything happened....

Quoting meam4444:

wow!  ive smacked guys before who have done crap like that to me even when i was single.  im surprised your hubby didnt do anything.  yea i would definately say something to your hubby.  creeepo!  that isnt even little man syndrome...it is pervert syndrome


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meam4444
by Emerald Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 3:57 PM

oh ok..yea i would definately tell your hubby what happened. 

Quoting orange4agua72:

My hubby honestly wasn't there when he was touching my belly and didn't hear the comment, so he really didn't know anything happened....

Quoting meam4444:

wow!  ive smacked guys before who have done crap like that to me even when i was single.  im surprised your hubby didnt do anything.  yea i would definately say something to your hubby.  creeepo!  that isnt even little man syndrome...it is pervert syndrome



mom_mom_holly
by Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 4:04 PM

i would deftnly say something, and maybe tell your hubby that from now on you dont want to be left alone with him, or that you dont want him around you at all even.  it duznt matter what his "short comings" are, he has no right to make you feel uncomfortabel.  ida pushed the basturd off my lap.  and the tuching before that, ida probley broke his arm, i dont like it when people tuch at me like that.  but i deftly dont think youre overeacting or anything and you should probley talk to your hubby about it.

housefullofkidz
by Emerald Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 4:08 PM

Yep, I agree. slime ball!

Quoting meam4444:

oh ok..yea i would definately tell your hubby what happened. 

Quoting orange4agua72:

My hubby honestly wasn't there when he was touching my belly and didn't hear the comment, so he really didn't know anything happened....

Quoting meam4444:

wow!  ive smacked guys before who have done crap like that to me even when i was single.  im surprised your hubby didnt do anything.  yea i would definately say something to your hubby.  creeepo!  that isnt even little man syndrome...it is pervert syndrome


 


  


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orange4agua72
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 4:09 PM

Thank you. I've ALWAYS felt uncomfortable around this guy for some reason.... I always try to avoid him, but he came up to me... I'll definately be saying something to hubby!

Quoting mom_mom_holly:

i would deftnly say something, and maybe tell your hubby that from now on you dont want to be left alone with him, or that you dont want him around you at all even.  it duznt matter what his "short comings" are, he has no right to make you feel uncomfortabel.  ida pushed the basturd off my lap.  and the tuching before that, ida probley broke his arm, i dont like it when people tuch at me like that.  but i deftly dont think youre overeacting or anything and you should probley talk to your hubby about it.


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sissychristi
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 4:17 PM

I would tell him. Shoot, I probably would have told him about the belly rubbing as soon as it happened.

Not appropriate behavior toward a friend's wife AT ALL.

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