It's a long story, but I will try and make it as short as possible...
My daughter's father hasn't been in her life, most of her life and she's only 21 months old. This past summer, he called and said he wanted to see her before he moved and wasn't able to see her. I fell for his trick. When DD was napping, he raped me, like he had countless times while we were together. It didn't matter to him that I was married. My husband was across the country doing training, and I had just got back from visiting him, and we were trying to have a baby. (DD's dad didn't know this, bc I didn't feel like that was his business) and he didn't wear a condom. So, here I am, 8 months later... PREGNANT. Not only has this been hard on my husband and I, but he also gave me Chlamydia. Not knowing that I had it, DH and I had sex and when I went to my first docs appointment, she said my cervix looked irritated, and a couple days later she called and told me WHY. I was devastated.
And I was doing some research... I don't think the antibiotics have been working that she gives me everytime, but DH and I have not been able to get rid of it. We wait the 10 days they tell us to, and we go back a month later to make sure it's gone, and it's not. (We decided to not have sex at all until it comes back negative, because the 10 days may not be long enough). Anyways, I was doing research and I am thinking the reasoning behind my terrible morning sickness, BAD BH contractions and whatnot may be from the infection. I have 8 weeks to get rid of it before the baby gets here, and maybe less because it can cause pre term labor. But there are so many things that can happen to my baby while giving birth... And she could be treated and it would get rid of it. But I don't even wat to think about it. I am thinking about going through with a repeat c section, even... I don't know what to do...
But do you think me having this infection is the reason behind the terrible morning sickness, and the BH contractions? It says so online, but I wanted some opinions. I NEVER was sick with DD, also... But it could also just be from me being pregnant.
i'm sorry and i'm not sure what to say cause i have never had an std. I would say to ask your doctor and see what they say, and as for the c section if you feel that is best for your child then by all means i would do a c section. Are you 100% sure this baby is even your dd's father? I would get a dna test done cause if you and your hubby were trying it is very possible it is your hubby's child. good luck!!
Summer Lynne born 4-22-08 Holly and John married 10-28-07 Baby boy due June 2, 2010
I was thinking the same thing about the DNA test.
OP, did you call the police on your ex?
Quoting mommyziegler:
i'm sorry and i'm not sure what to say cause i have never had an std. I would say to ask your doctor and see what they say, and as for the c section if you feel that is best for your child then by all means i would do a c section. Are you 100% sure this baby is even your dd's father? I would get a dna test done cause if you and your hubby were trying it is very possible it is your hubby's child. good luck!!
We decided not to do a test. We would much rather not know, and consider her to be his since he's my husband and has been there the whole time. Make sense?? DD doesn't know her dad, and never has. She calls DH daddy.
Quoting mommyziegler:
i'm sorry and i'm not sure what to say cause i have never had an std. I would say to ask your doctor and see what they say, and as for the c section if you feel that is best for your child then by all means i would do a c section. Are you 100% sure this baby is even your dd's father? I would get a dna test done cause if you and your hubby were trying it is very possible it is your hubby's child. good luck!!
No, my family doesn't know. No one does but DH and me. And a few people on here, lol. But neither of our families know... I was too scared to do anything.
Quoting lildragonfly923:
I was thinking the same thing about the DNA test.
OP, did you call the police on your ex?
Quoting mommyziegler:
i'm sorry and i'm not sure what to say cause i have never had an std. I would say to ask your doctor and see what they say, and as for the c section if you feel that is best for your child then by all means i would do a c section. Are you 100% sure this baby is even your dd's father? I would get a dna test done cause if you and your hubby were trying it is very possible it is your hubby's child. good luck!!
wow, I just wanted to give you GREAT BIG HUGS! My dd's biological father left her too, and she's since been adopted by my current husband and only knows him has daddy. He was very abusive.
I have no idea regarding the infection, I would definitely say that probiotics might help you out an aweful lot since antibiotics take away all of the good bacteria in your system and leaves you open to different things... yeast infection for one. Up your vit C intake and get on some garlic, it's a natural antibiotic. You can also look into a Hibi Cleanse (it's a vaginal cleanse) and works like an antibiotic also.
All the best to you!
I am so sorry that ur dealing with this! I am pretty sure that chlymdia can cause harm to the baby if not treated. I would talk to your doctor about it though and also see why the antibiotics are not working. My friend got it while pregnant from her bf (she left babies daddy, and got with her bf) and she was able to get it cleared up so i dnt understand y urs isnt. Hope everything works out.
I'm sorry you have to deal with this but wish you luck hope everything works out for you! If you feel a c section would be best then go for it. Whatever is best for you and baby is what you gotta do!
i'm so sorry!!! I have no advice, I have only had hpv and that cleared up for me
Quoting stellarluna:Where can I get the Hibi Cleanse?? Is Wal Mart or Walgreens the place to go?wow, I just wanted to give you GREAT BIG HUGS! My dd's biological father left her too, and she's since been adopted by my current husband and only knows him has daddy. He was very abusive.
I have no idea regarding the infection, I would definitely say that probiotics might help you out an aweful lot since antibiotics take away all of the good bacteria in your system and leaves you open to different things... yeast infection for one. Up your vit C intake and get on some garlic, it's a natural antibiotic. You can also look into a Hibi Cleanse (it's a vaginal cleanse) and works like an antibiotic also.
All the best to you!
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