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While having sex with me he was looking at another..TMI

Posted by on Feb. 5, 2012 at 11:58 AM
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So last night me and my husband were having sex, there was a movie on our tv a horror movie, and we were doing it doggy style (tmi sorry) he was looking at a girl on tv wearing her tiny lil underwear evrythning hanging out. I looked up nd saw that was on the tv the hole time he was doing his thing. I feel sad like hemust have been thinking of her while with me. He actually came pretty fast too. TMI. Its probly cause he was looking at her. Thats how i feel. I told him about it nd he was like i only looked 2 x. I know hes lying. Im hurt. Should i be hurt? What do you think? What would you do??
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MommyLehr
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 11:59 AM

I wouldnt think too much about it! 

TTC2Long
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 12:02 PM
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I would be totally hurt. Bring a magazine with a picture of a hot, buff, half-naked guy in the bedroom and whip it out during sex and see if he thinks its no big deal. He owes you a major apology and some serious ass kissing.
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Kellileanne
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 12:06 PM

 I wouldn't take it personally, it was just what was on tv at that moment.

kris0921
by Kristen on Feb. 5, 2012 at 1:02 PM

I wouldnt think to much about it, but thats easier said than done I know. Now when my husband and I are having sex I turn off the tv. But something like this has upset me before.

littlecheifsmom
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 1:04 PM
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i agree 100% with this.

Quoting TTC2Long:

I would be totally hurt. Bring a magazine with a picture of a hot, buff, half-naked guy in the bedroom and whip it out during sex and see if he thinks its no big deal. He owes you a major apology and some serious ass kissing.


kelsiey
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 1:04 PM
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Thats why you turn off the TV and put on some music.



littlecheifsmom
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 1:04 PM

& i wouldnt have sex for a long time after that either. cause i would be so hurt by it.

QuickMomma
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 1:06 PM

Oh this forsure!

Quoting TTC2Long:

I would be totally hurt. Bring a magazine with a picture of a hot, buff, half-naked guy in the bedroom and whip it out during sex and see if he thinks its no big deal. He owes you a major apology and some serious ass kissing.



newbabystarr09
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 1:11 PM

I understand your hurt..We turn off the T.v. the talking is a mood killer..Even on mute I don't want it on

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sandrab2011
by on Feb. 5, 2012 at 1:15 PM
I wouldn't think of it as a big deal BUT that is because I use videos etc for stimulation, not a lot of women are comfortable with there partner watching that stuff. If you didn't like it, obviously not BC of the post then tell him, he should respect your wishes in the future.
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