Hello, hopefully someone could help me. Here's my story. In October 2011 my hubby n I found out we were pregnant with our first..we were early on then couple weeks later, I ended up having a miscarriage, hardest time of my life, that is forsure. Anyhow in November about a month later I did have my period as normal, and since my miscarriage til now my hubby n I have been having sex but he has always been pulling out. Anyhow since November I had a period but since then haven't had any. I'm Guna make an appointment here soon with my doc. But I don't know what to think. I'm scared to hope to b pregnant and we aren't. Is there a chance I could be, even without having any signs this time around? And is there even a chance I could be pregnant even with him pulling out just right before? Thanks so much. Any other advice or info would be great. Also I haven't tooken a pregnancy test yet.
Update. Well, I took the hpt this AM and like my thoughts, it was negative. Why then do I feel so let down once again?? :-( now, I have to make a doc appt sense I haven't had a period since November. And then from there I don't know what to do or anything. Anyhow, thank you all for your advice and all.
Update. Well, I took the hpt this AM and like my thoughts, it was negative. Why then do I feel so let down once again?? :-( now, I have to make a doc appt sense I haven't had a period since November. And then from there I don't know what to do or anything. Anyhow, thank you all for your advice and all.
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With both of my kids I never had any symptoms to tell me that I was pregnant when I got to 13 weeks I was super tired & slept through my first & second trimester (with my first Son) has nausea but never threw up & I had migraines. With my second I was tired but had the nausea & migraines too. I never had the typical "morning sickness" if it wasn't for my Family telling me I had a baby bump & that I'm pregnant I wouldn't have known until I had a sign. Both kids were planned but I had several miscarriages over 5 year period, had surgery for PCOS & Endomitriosis, went through menopause just to get pregnant with my Son; Bentley with the first period I had after coming out of menopause. So I didn't mentally think I would actually get pregnant & stay pregnant even though I was using my Clear Blue Fertility Monitor & was on Clomid. Everything in this world is possible. If you are not pregnant go to Walgreens & buy a bottle of Prenatals & take as a vitamin while you are actively trying that way your already on it. I take them weather I'm pregnant or not.
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on Feb. 12, 2012 at 4:48 PM
The only thing to do is take a test. I had an ectopic pregnancy rupture in July. I only have one tube. We found out Nov 12th we are pregnant again. *hug* I understand your excitement and fear. Best of luck.
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on Feb. 12, 2012 at 4:49 PM
If it was a tiny bit of blood it could of been implantation.. If you are pregnant. If not, then Idk.
Quoting joshswifey2011:Quoting mrsrollins:
thank you I thought to. Yes I should take a hpt that's why I'm going to I was just seeking for help sense I have noone except my hubby. And already went thru a miscarriage. Not to mention I have in past had irrregular periods but that was 1 yr or so ago. Then was having them 1 a month for 5 days. Then had misscarriage in october. Had a period in november and in December only a lil blood when wipe for 1 or 2 days.
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on Feb. 12, 2012 at 5:02 PM
I understand my miscarriage was 5 years ago and still hurts. Losing a baby is never something you get over, it happened during the first trimester but was still painful. Yes, take a test ASAP. You need to start your vitamins and prenatal care as soon as possible if you are with child.
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on Feb. 12, 2012 at 5:12 PM
Quoting misslady80013:
I understand my miscarriage was 5 years ago and still hurts. Losing a baby is never something you get over, it happened during the first trimester but was still painful. Yes, take a test ASAP. You need to start your vitamins and prenatal care as soon as possible if you are with child.
thank you, I'm glad someone could relate to me with this miscarriage and hard it is. So ill be takin a test thank you.
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on Feb. 12, 2012 at 5:20 PM
You should definitely take a test ASAP. I'd go to dollar tree & pick up a couple, take one tonight, in the morning, and then if still negative, wait a couple days.
Considering you already had a miscarriage, if you are pregnant, you are going to need prenatal care ASAP. I had a miscarriage with my first, and only had one period & got pregnant again. I ended up getting pregnant with twins, and because my body was not ready to be pregnant so soon after miscarriage, I lost a twin. I luckily went to 35weeks with the other twin & now have a healthy beautiful 18 month old son !
But you need to find out real soon. Symptoms are not the same for everyone. I have had the easiest pregnancies !!! This one i didn't like meat&such things in the very beginning, but besides that I don't really get too many "symptoms" that would lead me to believe pregnant, sure I can pick them out or blame some things on my pregnancy since I know, but.
Goodluck !
Considering you already had a miscarriage, if you are pregnant, you are going to need prenatal care ASAP. I had a miscarriage with my first, and only had one period & got pregnant again. I ended up getting pregnant with twins, and because my body was not ready to be pregnant so soon after miscarriage, I lost a twin. I luckily went to 35weeks with the other twin & now have a healthy beautiful 18 month old son !
But you need to find out real soon. Symptoms are not the same for everyone. I have had the easiest pregnancies !!! This one i didn't like meat&such things in the very beginning, but besides that I don't really get too many "symptoms" that would lead me to believe pregnant, sure I can pick them out or blame some things on my pregnancy since I know, but.
Goodluck !
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on Feb. 12, 2012 at 5:22 PM
Wow! All the rude lady's posts got deleted AND the quotes of them?? I didn't think you could do that! Was that an admin?
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I understand your fear completely. I had a miscarriage with my first, and am still scared I will have one again! I did however give birth to a wonderul baby boy last April and am now pregnant again. This one was not planned and I would not of known if I was not at my friends house and taken the test to prove I wasnt! I started my care and have gotten to see my OB already even though I am only going to be 7 weeks! I hope everything goes well for you and if you feel scared in anyway you can always message me to talk!
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