Help, How do I tell my husband which does not want any more children, that I'm PREGNANT...i already have four kids 2 girls and 2 boys...i was on birth control and made sure i did not miss a pill but i don't know why i still came out pregnant... i was trying to save money for my tubal since our deductible is high...but know I'm pregnant and scared, overwhelmed and confused. please any advice.
It isn't like it is YOUR fault you are pregnant. it takes 2! lol. So he is just as much responsible as you are. Just tell him, you'll feel better.
Just come out and say it. It's not like it's your fault. You should be sharing in this completely. You shouldn't be handling the stress alone.
If it were me in your shoes, I would probably come sobbing to him as soon as I found out.
Just tell him. It's neither your fault, nor his so he has no reason to be upset with you. Obviously this little life is meant to be, since you were taking necessary precautions and are still pregnant! :)
It may not be an option for you, but there is always adoption.
Hugs & good luck mama!
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- nelly31
on Feb. 16, 2012 at 1:46 PM