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I need a friend ):

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:01 PM
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Im young , married , sucessful and expecting my first baby in Las Vegas , NV .

once you decide to " grow up" all your so called " friends" dissapear ... /:

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:01 PM
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akrogers13
by Silver Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:07 PM

i was 19 when i got pregnant with my first... to this day i dont have a single friend left from back then... it's now a distant "remember when..." memory... it sucks, but you'll make some new mommy friends and you'll find other friends along the way!

Whitney15
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:12 PM
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Same! I was young when I got married....and I all of a sudden had not so much in common with my young single friends. Life changes when you have a family, and that's okay! It might be lonely for a little bit, but you'll find friends that are on the same page as you!
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meam4444
by Emerald Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:48 PM

((hugs))

LindsayM3
by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:58 PM

Same thing happened when I got married at 23. I am 28 (about to be 29) expecting my first baby, and even now women do the same thing if they are single,or have no kids! lol! I lived in Vegas from 06 to 09! I miss it out there!

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loralee341
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:41 PM
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tell me about it im young myself pregnant with baby number three and my husbands my best friend..its hard when all the people your age are partying and i dont ever go out so they never call me idk i feel so llonely plus i am not telling any one i am pregnant till my first ultra sound March 8th so i am dying!! we can be friends

GirlInTheFedora
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:45 PM

Same thing happened with my friends..guess since I can't go out drinking I'm no longer fun..&I'm single...so it just sucks..

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lulu9209479
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:48 PM
I was the first of my two best friends to get married, a few months later bought a house, and now I'm pregnant with my first. My friends have serious boyfriends and good jobs, however they still live at home and so do their bf's. I know we will always be great friends, but it's weird for the first time being in a different place in my life than they are
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AAJACKSON
by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:48 PM

Awww ! thanks ladies !!! (:

i been living by myself since iwas 16 so friends r long gone ... and like loralee341 said my husband IS mys best friend , but i ache from that girl to girl friendship aometimes , my husband is so charismatic and charming he has tons of friends , child hood friends so i let him go to the bar with the guys once in a while or to play basketball , soccer and has his guy's gym night here and there and am stuck alone with frankie ( our dog at home ) and it gets lonely .... sometime something exciting happens and i have no one to call and gossip around , ugh sucks ! 

kayleesmom42328
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:54 PM

I know the feeling. I wasn't that young when I was expecting dd 2 yrs ago. I was 30. My friends & I would talk & hangout as often as we could. But when I got married in March 2010 friends quit calling &  coming around. Some I haven't seen since my wedding. One friend calls or text me at least twice a week. The others just text on rare occassions. Hang in there. You'll make new friends.

HUGS

 

gavs4boys
by Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 7:01 PM

Yeah that happens. That just goesa to show they weren't "REAL" friends.  A real friend would still be there for you.  I hope you find some friends youar age who are in the same situation as you.  It's nice havnig friends with the same things in common.

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