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adoption?

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 12:52 PM
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Im seriously considering placing this baby up for adoption but i dont know how to go about even looking into this any advice?
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louzannalady
by Silver Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 12:57 PM

*hug* It depends. I know, the Catholic church and the LDS church both have excellent placement rates for newborn babies. But, it depends on if you would feel comfortable with the baby being raised in one of those churches. There are a lot of adoption agencies out there, that are not religion based. I know, it is tough to consider, but I am proud of you for doing so! I just googled "placing baby for adoption". A lot of really nice looking agencies and hotlines for advice came up. Best wishes!

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Pandapanda
by Amber on Feb. 17, 2012 at 12:58 PM

There may be an adoption service in your area. They will help you find a family for the baby for free and help you explore your options.

bjw_053109
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 1:01 PM
thank you i have two previous children with me and the story with this pregnancy is long and complicated. And honestly i dont know what decision ill make but it cant hurt to check out my options since i dont believe in abortions ...well for myself anywyas
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LillyJDv3.0
by Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 1:07 PM
I'm not really sure but here is a link to an adoption group here on cm and there are birth mothers in that group who you could talk to

http://m.cafemom.com/groups/group.php?group_id=96

Sorry it's not clickable, I'm mobile and can't make it clickable
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bjw_053109
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 1:09 PM
thanks im on mobile too so i understand


Quoting LillyJDv3.0:

I'm not really sure but here is a link to an adoption group here on cm and there are birth mothers in that group who you could talk to



http://m.cafemom.com/groups/group.php?group_id=96



Sorry it's not clickable, I'm mobile and can't make it clickable

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louzannalady
by Silver Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 1:11 PM
1 mom liked this

http://m.cafemom.com/groups/group.php?group_id=96

Here. I made it clicky, if that helps. 

flowerfunleah
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 1:25 PM

If you don't mind my asking, why are you considering this?

jeslc03
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 2:10 PM
I placed a baby when I was 19. It was very hard, but it was the best decision for him and me. He's with an amazing family!

I went through LDS Family Services. They're great, but not going to be the best decision of agencies for everyone since it is religion based.

I also have a nephew who was adopted into our family who's birth parents are married with 4 other children and they just couldn't take on another baby. He's been a HUGE blessing in our family.

I'm married now and have 3 children with my hubby and one on the way. If you want to chat with me I would love to. *hugs*
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