Ho-hum still about the gender scan we had Friday. I cried on Friday and Saturday. DH feels like she was wrong. He wants to wait til our big anatomy scan late next month. I dint want to get my hopes up and be all sad again. I'm trying to just accept it's another boy. But it's hard. I was so sure this was a girl. I'll still love baby. We have no name picked at all, and I don't even know where to start for it. He said to wait. He said he'll keep the faith for us both for now. We've kinda started talking about whether we'd have a 5th or not. 5 is my max. He said he'd at least wait on getting cut and he said the other factor would be if we bought our house next year. I think he's open to it, but at the same time I don't want him to think of having a 5th later on cause I'm sad I never got to experience being mom to a daughter. The excitedness hasn't fully come back yet for this baby. That worries me. I just kinda feel like a lost a child. Does that make sense?
I felt this way, but I was just having my 2nd boy. I was SURE he was a she...and I was disappointed when we saw the "turtle" on his ultrasound.
but I definitley warmed to the idea. and I desperately want to try again for a girl.
big HUGS!!
let DH keep the hope for you <3
Carlie: Blessed Wife to Jon (09.05.09) & Mamma to Jaxon (11.19.08) and Talon (12.01.11).
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I have 3 boys, and I cryed after every ultrasound because I wanted a daughter so badly. :( And thinking back now, I think I was a little crazy, because I love these boys so much, I could care less if they were purple and had green hair! LOL I am finally have my girl on try 4. Which was our last time trying. If 5 is your max, do it! You will have a daughter! :)
I was that way for my 3rd. We had 2 DD and I was really wanting a boy. DD1 cried when she found it she was going to have another sister which didn't help anything. DD3 is now 13 months and a great addition to our family. I'm currently pregnant with #4 and we would acctually like another girl! We won't find out until April though.
Its hard i understand how u feel i have 3 boys and just had my girl but i only wanted 3 kids when i was pregnant with my 3rd and found out it was another boy i cried my eyes out expecially when my brother in law had a girl first time i was super depressed its normal but i would never take back my boys and u would feel the same trust me good luck!
TGIF! What are you doing this weekend?
Are you a first time mom? If not, how many kids do you have?
- aireeno
on Feb. 21, 2012 at 8:32 AM