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thinking..

Posted by on Apr. 5, 2012 at 3:59 AM
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4 yrs dating in November...and I think he might pop the question after the baby is born. Love him, but NOT looking foward to that...
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akrall83
by Member on Apr. 5, 2012 at 4:15 AM

Why not?

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GodsAmiga
by Silver Member on Apr. 5, 2012 at 4:56 AM


Quoting akrall83:

Why not?


MommyIsMyName90
by on Apr. 5, 2012 at 4:58 AM
Aww why not?
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kmqw229
by Ruby Member on Apr. 5, 2012 at 7:37 AM
Do you not want to get married?
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Chelsea_rh
by on Apr. 5, 2012 at 8:03 AM
How come?
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millie1389
by on Apr. 14, 2012 at 8:09 PM
hes 20 yrs my senior..lets say hes @ the sunset of his life and im at high noon after baby is born there are things i still want to do like finish school n get a better job. i want my kid 2 experience all the great things about being a kid i didnt(n ive done ALOT.) im afraid he wont be able 2 keep up! hes already having "older" aches n pains. i wont let my kid b deprived of a childhood because he cant hang. that would be so unfair!
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msswisher08
by on Apr. 14, 2012 at 8:14 PM
Maybe have a long engagement until you guys get your life how you want it. Good luck and congrats...


Quoting millie1389:

hes 20 yrs my senior..lets say hes @ the sunset of his life and im at high noon after baby is born there are things i still want to do like finish school n get a better job. i want my kid 2 experience all the great things about being a kid i didnt(n ive done ALOT.) im afraid he wont be able 2 keep up! hes already having "older" aches n pains. i wont let my kid b deprived of a childhood because he cant hang. that would be so unfair!

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doulala
by Emerald Member on Apr. 14, 2012 at 8:29 PM

So he probably doesn't know you feel this way, sounds like--

Quoting millie1389:

hes 20 yrs my senior..lets say hes @ the sunset of his life and im at high noon after baby is born there are things i still want to do like finish school n get a better job. i want my kid 2 experience all the great things about being a kid i didnt(n ive done ALOT.) im afraid he wont be able 2 keep up! hes already having "older" aches n pains. i wont let my kid b deprived of a childhood because he cant hang. that would be so unfair!


Are you saying you don't intend to stay with him for much longer?

If he can't keep up then you could go on without him (as you would do as a single mom anyhow), he doesn't have to attend every adventure.


How old are your kids?

LittleWoman88
by Member on Apr. 14, 2012 at 8:35 PM
My guy is 20 years older as well. We both are not for marriage at the moment. I understand you having those type of reservations, I've had them. I would say have a long engagement so you can figure it all out. GL :)


Quoting millie1389:

hes 20 yrs my senior..lets say hes @ the sunset of his life and im at high noon after baby is born there are things i still want to do like finish school n get a better job. i want my kid 2 experience all the great things about being a kid i didnt(n ive done ALOT.) im afraid he wont be able 2 keep up! hes already having "older" aches n pains. i wont let my kid b deprived of a childhood because he cant hang. that would be so unfair!

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millie1389
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 2:33 PM
after 2 heartbreaking miscarriages, this is baby #1 for both of us..
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