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New Mommie

Posted by on Apr. 19, 2012 at 9:31 AM
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Hello Everyone, My Name Is Jay


I'm 23 and having my first child. I'm scarand blessed all at the same tiime. My fiance iis a good man so I never had to wonder about that. I'm pretty sure he willl be a great father. I'm from California, the sunshine state. I did live in the south for a second and that was a great experience. What I'm rreally afriad of was a long tyme ago I was pregnant and went to full term and had a stillbirth. I'm afraid it migh happen again. I really do want this baby and doing everything I can like taking prenatals and eating right. Realisticly you can't control a stillbirth it juss happenes. At this piont what should I do or how should I feeel.

~Jay~
by on Apr. 19, 2012 at 9:31 AM
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-mrs.mamma-
by on Apr. 19, 2012 at 9:34 AM
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congrats on the pregnancy!
try to stay positive, hun! everything will be okay  : )

MrsWhite101610
by on Apr. 19, 2012 at 9:35 AM
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I cant offer any advice. I've never had a stillborn but i wish you the best of luck
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Mommie.Jay
by on Apr. 19, 2012 at 9:41 AM
Thank you. My mom says to be and stay around positive people and do my parrt to make sure its aa healthy pregnacy. Juss stills bothers me in the back of my mind. Goiing thru it once was hard, twice idk if I can handle that
tararon
by on Apr. 19, 2012 at 9:44 AM
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I couldn't imagine. This is my first pregnancy and I worry about everything. I try to remember to breathe. I wish you all the luck. Keep your head up.
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Flaca43
by on Apr. 19, 2012 at 9:50 AM
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 Congratulations and good luck! Try not to worry. Try to stay stressfree and it sounds like you are doing everything you can to have a great pregnancy.

Mommie.Jay
by on Apr. 19, 2012 at 10:22 AM
Thank you everyone for your words of wisdom. Its very helpful
kmqw229
by Ruby Member on Apr. 19, 2012 at 2:15 PM
I'm sorry for your loss. :(

Did they determine the cause of your stillborn? Sometimes there are things you can do or take to prevent it from happening again.

Good luck! I hope you have a happy and healthy 9mo!
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Mommie.Jay
by on May. 26, 2012 at 9:11 AM
No, they had no clue. They said it just happenes at times
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