help, thinking of getting a abortion today
Quoting ariesmommy84:
Do what you feel is right! Don't let anyone tell you what to do !!
My friend was in the same boat. She kept her baby and doesn't regret it. But she has lots of support from her family!
Quoting Joashmom:
That's what I'm afraid of is the regret I might have afterwards. I heard about mothers getting a abortion and feeling guilty and deeply depressed afterwards. And they regret there decision and I don't want to be like that
Quoting ariesmommy84:
There's always adoption. But its your choice. You decide. Make sure you won't regret it!
Quoting ariesmommy84:
There's always adoption. But its your choice. You decide. Make sure you won't regret it!
Quoting Tiffersmu:
What about adoption???? As hard as that sounds its truly a selfless act of love. Don't make any quick decisions bc of his actions. It's your body.
I just wanted to say that it's a decision you will live with for the rest of your life. I have 3 children and one due sept (just found out yesterday it's a boy) and 1 in my heart that is in heaven.
Quoting Joashmom:
That's what I'm afraid of is the regret I might have afterwards. I heard about mothers getting a abortion and feeling guilty and deeply depressed afterwards. And they regret there decision and I don't want to be like that
Quoting ariesmommy84:
There's always adoption. But its your choice. You decide. Make sure you won't regret it!
I doubt anyone on here is going to change your mind. My guess is you will probably abort. But I do want to add my opinion to this. I think that in the moment, obortion is the quick and easy way out, however it is also the most selfish. This baby didn't have a choice, it was conceived because of your actions. Not faulting you for that. However, this baby is a little miracle, already gowing and doing amazing things inside of you. I hope you give this child a chance to become who he/she is meant to be, and I seriously dought it was intended to be thrown away. I agree with some of the ladies above. Adoption would be the most selfless thing you could do for your baby. Yes it would require going thru 9 months of pregnancy and i'm sure it would be hart at that point to give up, you may even change your mind. A lot can happen in 9 months. Believe me, I know. I became a single mom over night when my husband came home and decided he didn't want to be married to me anymore. I was devistated. That was four years ago. I am now remarried with my third child and another on the way. I would have never guessed my life would have turned out this way. Sometimes I don't even recognise my life, it has changed to much. Way better than I ever thought it would be. My point is, you never know what tomorrow will bring. I know my opinion doesn't mean much, but I hope you will think about it. This baby depend on you, it doesn't have a choice. Good luck
When did you tell people?
- Tiffersmu
on Apr. 24, 2012 at 7:10 AM