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Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now.....and we have a 2 year old little boy named ryder... we went to the park a couple of days ago and he sat me down at a picnic table and said "I got something for u" and I was like ok and then he pulled out a ring and asked me to marry him so I said yes put the ring on then he said "wait there is something else" so I was like ok what and he pulled out a dna test paper out of his pocket and I red it and it said he was not my sons dad :'( which I know I had sex with someone else but honestly thought he was my boyfriends :'( I need some really good advice. Does anyone know what the chances are that he is going to change his mimd and leave are? He said he loves me and my son no matter what but I juat can't get it threw my head that ryder is not his baby help :'(
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by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 1:36 AM
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Lizzie227
by on Apr. 29, 2012 at 2:23 AM
His bio father is a scum bag he knows now and like I thought wants nothinv to do with him


Quoting candimalice:

Personally I think the bio father has the right to know he has a son... has this at all crossed ygour mind?

As for the rest, sorry, I hope it works out for you, no matter what the result

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Lizzie227
by on Apr. 29, 2012 at 2:25 AM
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Yes lol I thi k he really needed time for it to sink in we are doing fine now


Quoting RADmomma:

So he did the dna test, proposed, told you about the test and then left??

I just want to make sure I am reading it all right...



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sissy852
by Gold Member on Apr. 29, 2012 at 2:29 AM
the fact that he asked you to marry him knowing tells me he is staying
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