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im only 17 im only three weeks pregnant and i dont want to have my baby. im too scared and wasnt expecting this. i took two tablespoons of castrol oil. i dont know wat to do i want to do a natural abortion. please help please.

by on Apr. 30, 2012 at 8:46 PM
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msswisher08
by on May. 1, 2012 at 2:20 PM
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There is a lot of help and moms that had baby's young. 17 is young but not as young as some. My cousin was 15 when she got Prego and will be 16 when she has him. She is taking full responsibility. If you really don't want to raise a child give it a life and give a loving family a baby!! Trust me there are MANY out there!! Also my one friend did several abortions and had several miscarriage's and now she may never be able to have children so please keep that in mind you may not want them now but you will in the furture and what of this does not allow that to happen?
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marihla
by on May. 1, 2012 at 4:14 PM

 There's no way to do a natural abortion. Get a real one. If you can't, then don't do harmful things to your body and make sure the baby can come out safe. there's always adoption if you can't find a way to abort. But you do have time, go to planned parenthood and get the information that they have about abortion clinics.

jordonlea
by on May. 1, 2012 at 5:05 PM
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It's not being immature. I just take this is a REAL serious matter. Like I said before, she is not going to take advice from someone who is bashing her at the same time. You need to suck it up and no matter how hard it is be alittle nice (or at least not mean) so maybe she will at least hear what you saying. It is not about YOU and YOUR emotions. It is about the unborn CHILD inside of her.

Quoting BiPolarMomto3:

I'm not an idiot I gave her advice in my previous posts shut up and stop being an immature b**ch!!!

Quoting jordonlea:

OMG, your an idiot. Were you completely unable to comprehend what I just said?? You are more focused on bashing this girl than trying to safe the life of the baby inside of her. Get over your own emotions and try to help the girl so the BABY can possibly have a future. If your unable to do that, then that makes you just as bad. I never said I agreed with what she did/ is doing but I care more about helping the innocent baby then yelling at the mother. People like you are the reason why teen moms end up giving birth behind a dumpster or on there own somewhere then hurting the baby. They need to feel they have someone to talk to without getting judged. Regardless weather you disagree or not you need to try to be supportive for the BABY'S sake. So the BABY can have a future. Afterall, that is what all of this is about right? Or are you to selfish to try and help an innocent baby?


Quoting BiPolarMomto3:

Sorry but I have no tolerance or sympathy for someone who is trying to kill their baby because they were so irresponsible and got pregnant! Especially when it took me awhile to get pregnant with my oldest and I suffered a MC before hand. Some woman don't have the pleasures of going through pregnancy, or having the birthing experience. So no I have no sympathy for her! She needs to grow up and use her brain and stop thinking with her vagina! There are a lot of woman here who are TTC #1 and can't!


Quoting jordonlea:


Look I am not going to bash you like a lot of these other moms. You are clearly young and not educated about this subject. Whatever you do please, please, talk to your mom, teacher, or someone you trust. You cannot make this sort of decision on your own and whatever you do not DO NOT give yourself an abortion or miscarrage. This is very serious. Please just talk to adult you can trust to help you through this.



To all of you doing nothing but bashing her, c'mon. I don't agree with what she did either but THIS IS A SERIOUS MATTER. She needs real advice and she's not going to listen to someone sitting there bashing her. YOU ARE JUST GOING TO FREAK HER OUT MORE. Have some common sense....


 


Kimbyann
by Bronze Member on May. 1, 2012 at 5:39 PM

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BiPolarMomto3
by on May. 1, 2012 at 7:31 PM
I was I told her and gave her suggestions but that does not mean I have to actually be nice about it!

Quoting jordonlea:

It's not being immature. I just take this is a REAL serious matter. Like I said before, she is not going to take advice from someone who is bashing her at the same time. You need to suck it up and no matter how hard it is be alittle nice (or at least not mean) so maybe she will at least hear what you saying. It is not about YOU and YOUR emotions. It is about the unborn CHILD inside of her.


Quoting BiPolarMomto3:

I'm not an idiot I gave her advice in my previous posts shut up and stop being an immature b**ch!!!


Quoting jordonlea:


OMG, your an idiot. Were you completely unable to comprehend what I just said?? You are more focused on bashing this girl than trying to safe the life of the baby inside of her. Get over your own emotions and try to help the girl so the BABY can possibly have a future. If your unable to do that, then that makes you just as bad. I never said I agreed with what she did/ is doing but I care more about helping the innocent baby then yelling at the mother. People like you are the reason why teen moms end up giving birth behind a dumpster or on there own somewhere then hurting the baby. They need to feel they have someone to talk to without getting judged. Regardless weather you disagree or not you need to try to be supportive for the BABY'S sake. So the BABY can have a future. Afterall, that is what all of this is about right? Or are you to selfish to try and help an innocent baby?



Quoting BiPolarMomto3:

Sorry but I have no tolerance or sympathy for someone who is trying to kill their baby because they were so irresponsible and got pregnant! Especially when it took me awhile to get pregnant with my oldest and I suffered a MC before hand. Some woman don't have the pleasures of going through pregnancy, or having the birthing experience. So no I have no sympathy for her! She needs to grow up and use her brain and stop thinking with her vagina! There are a lot of woman here who are TTC #1 and can't!



Quoting jordonlea:



Look I am not going to bash you like a lot of these other moms. You are clearly young and not educated about this subject. Whatever you do please, please, talk to your mom, teacher, or someone you trust. You cannot make this sort of decision on your own and whatever you do not DO NOT give yourself an abortion or miscarrage. This is very serious. Please just talk to adult you can trust to help you through this.




To all of you doing nothing but bashing her, c'mon. I don't agree with what she did either but THIS IS A SERIOUS MATTER. She needs real advice and she's not going to listen to someone sitting there bashing her. YOU ARE JUST GOING TO FREAK HER OUT MORE. Have some common sense....



 



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nevaNabismommy
by on May. 1, 2012 at 7:52 PM
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Your,"only" 17 your almost,an adult, I had my second child one month after my 18th birthday, iys not hard to put your big girl panties on and grow up

Quoting aubrey629:

because i didnt know what to do okay, im only seventeen, just turned seventteen. im confused and lost. and right now my stomach is aching more than ever. i dont know what to do it hurts really bad.

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aubrey629
by on May. 1, 2012 at 9:18 PM

I would like to thank all the ladies for the good advice they gave me and tried to help i really appreciate it. I know that 17 is no excuse but im confused im lost and dont know what to do. i just wanted some help and advice. im sorry if some of you didnt like my post i really am. i understand some of you guys think im stupid and immature. but really im just lost and i know that at some point you were 17 and confused so please dont judge anyone only God can judge.

Mrs.Andrews
by Mandy on May. 1, 2012 at 9:38 PM

Have you talked to an adult about it yet? Or made a doctor appointment or something? What is your plan now?

Quoting aubrey629:

I would like to thank all the ladies for the good advice they gave me and tried to help i really appreciate it. I know that 17 is no excuse but im confused im lost and dont know what to do. i just wanted some help and advice. im sorry if some of you didnt like my post i really am. i understand some of you guys think im stupid and immature. but really im just lost and i know that at some point you were 17 and confused so please dont judge anyone only God can judge.


aubrey629
by on May. 1, 2012 at 9:42 PM

no i havent talked to an adult yet. Only me and my boyfriend know about it. he is being very supportive and helpful. im just lost and dont know what to do. Im trying to find a way to go to the doctors without my parents finding out. the town that i live in is very small and everybody knows everybody so i cant go to the clinic here because everybody theres knows me and  i know them. im trying to go to a doctor asap but i just dont know how i will without my parents knowing or missing school.

first.time.momy
by on May. 1, 2012 at 10:09 PM
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I'm not going to freak out on you like alot of moms here have. But you do need to try and sit down and talk to your mom. Even if you say something like "Hey mom, today at school me and some friends were talking about people having kids young. I was just wondering how you would react if I got pregnant young?" My family is VERY traditional go to college, get married, THEN have kids. Well my older sister NOR I did that. My sister has two kids. And I just had my first today. Please find someone who you can talk to that you trust. Wether it be your mom, a friends mom, a teacher, or school counselor. Please look at ALL of your options before you make any final decisions. If you need to or want to talk feel free to msg me. Good Luck hun!
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