im only 17 im only three weeks pregnant and i dont want to have my baby. im too scared and wasnt expecting this. i took two tablespoons of castrol oil. i dont know wat to do i want to do a natural abortion. please help please.
This is not the site you need to be on if you wanna kill your baby.... There are ladies on here who are trying so hard to have babies and then they read your post.... let alone the women who are pregnant and have hormones that are out of wack, like me! I was sexually active when I was 17 and I was on birth control!! If you are going to put yourself in that situation you need to deal with the consequences. You are almost an adult so you might as well start acting like one now.... Whatever you choose just keep in mind that you can't take having an abortion or killing your own baby back.... That baby is a life inside of you and if you are successful at causing a MISCARRIAGE to yourself then you are killing your very own child..... OMG!! I think I need to just get off of here right now. I have no sympathy for you or anyone who gets pregnant and wants to get rid of that poor child. What if you could see your life ten years from now and see your beautiful boy or girl let alone the first time you would hold them in your arms. Abortion is not an easy way out!!!!
Go to the doctor or midwife and they can help you to be more comfy, more safe, good luck!
You are just going to end up hurting yourself and making yourself miserable. You need to talk to someone about this. Go to a chrisis pregnancy center or a pregnancy alternatives center. They have counselors you can talk to and can help get you through this.
ok, here goes, I'm sorry, but I agree with these other women. However, I realize you are panicking right now. I hope you will stop, breath and think about your situation maybe a little clearer. You need to talk to someone. Maybe a school councelor, or some other adult you trust, if not your parents. Yes, they will be dissapointed and upset, but I'm sure they love you and wouldn't want you to go thru this alone. They might even surprise you. When the dust settles, and it probably will need to, they will want to help you I'm sure. Being that you are only 17 is not an excuse to act irrisponsibly. You are old enough to know what you are doing and the concequences of your actions. The best thing you can do is get some help. Don't do anything that will hurt yourself, or your baby. Talk to someone!!! Good luck
It hurts because of the castor oil. It will likely give you diarrhea and maybe vomiting. It won't kill your baby. Can you talk to your Mom about it?
Quoting aubrey629:because i didnt know what to do okay, im only seventeen, just turned seventteen. im confused and lost. and right now my stomach is aching more than ever. i dont know what to do it hurts really bad.
From a mothers perspective, I know if you were my daughter, first yes I would be upset and definatly not happy about the situation, but I would want to know. I would want to help you. Unless you have a really bad relationship with your mother, please talk to her. I know it is scary, but it will be ok.
Look I am not going to bash you like a lot of these other moms. You are clearly young and not educated about this subject. Whatever you do please, please, talk to your mom, teacher, or someone you trust. You cannot make this sort of decision on your own and whatever you do not DO NOT give yourself an abortion or miscarrage. This is very serious. Please just talk to adult you can trust to help you through this.
To all of you doing nothing but bashing her, c'mon. I don't agree with what she did either but THIS IS A SERIOUS MATTER. She needs real advice and she's not going to listen to someone sitting there bashing her. YOU ARE JUST GOING TO FREAK HER OUT MORE. Have some common sense....
How sick is too sick?
Diapers *Poll*
- aubrey629
on Apr. 30, 2012 at 8:46 PM