So with my first baby my mom flew out to "help" us. And it was super stressful on my husband and I. Like at night when my ds would cry because he was hungry she would burst in to our bed room to "help" me feed him. I breast fed and thankfully my ds had no issues latching. It was just little things like that. Now that we are getting close to having our 2nd child she is talking about flying out again. How do I tell her we want to bond with the new baby as a family and let me recover without the stress of having company? Please no bashing or calling me selfish for not wanting her to come and stay with us when the baby is born. Like I said it was very stressful last time and I don't want that again.
on May. 1, 2012 at 3:36 AM