Quoting Mrs.Andrews:So are you saying she can't handle another one since she didn't potty train her first one yet or because of the cost of diapers. Cause a lot of 2 year olds aren't potty trained but that doesn't mean someone will be a bad parent.
My SIL said she was done having kids but when I got pregnant with my second baby she told my MIL it made her want another one. So they got pregnant. No big deal though. They have the right to do whatever they want and I don't have to worry about it. People were still just as excited about my baby. Every baby is special and there is room to love them all.
Quoting mjhelgeson:
Both! she doesnt work and she alreayd has a two year old still in diapers!
Quoting mama-smurf:
You mean her body can't handle another or financially? Hey. If she did it to have spotlight on her because of her jealousy that's her fault also, which is why I said she will get fat in the process. Muahaha lol
Quoting mjhelgeson:
she only get pregnant because me and my husband got pregnant, shes alreayd cant handle one why add another..
Quoting mama-smurf:
Wow...wtf but hey its her problem too. Now she can, not only regret her decision but lose her shape in the process >=D
Quoting kcangel63:
Good luck to her. I wouldn't make such a life changing move out of spite and jealousy.
You have no clue why she got pregnant, lol.
Just relax and be happy for her!
I wouldn't jump to conclusions that quickly.....When my SIL was pregnant, DH and I had been trying for over a year for our 2nd, only people didn't know. When I found out I was pregnant after 19 months of trying- her (and MIL) started getting pissy and telling everyone what you are- that I only got pregnant to "steal SIL's thunder". They never asked me about my pregnancy and it was awkward not being able to share the joy of our pregnancy bc they acted weird and snotty about it.
IMO- Babies are a blessing, regardless of when they come. Be happy for her or else you are going to ruin not only your pregnancy but hers too. That's not fair to anyone.




- mjhelgeson
on May. 29, 2012 at 10:28 PM