About 2 weeks ago, my fiancee broke into my parents home and stole a bunch of money and pills and collectables. He had had an addiction to pills a few years back and went through treatment. Apparently, someone at work had him try that potporri stuff they have out now that the effects resemble marijuanna and he had been doing that. I hadn't noticed any signs, he has been working alot, as he is a manager of a resteraunt, plus, being 6 months pregnant and having 3 kids already, I've been a lot preoccupied. Anyways, my parents made a payment deal with him and he was to write out a full confession, so that if he didn't follow through or was caught with the stuff again, he would be turned over to authorities. I was basically asked to stay with him to make sure payments were made and they were fully reimbursed. So he has been here, and it is killing me to play good, caring girlfriend when my world is falling apart. Whats worse is that I was terminated from my employer due to my pregnancy, so we are relying on him for income right now. He is still coming home stoned, I keep finding hiding spots, and he keeps crying that he loves me and doesn't know why he can't quit. If I leave, my kids and I are destitute until one of the jobs that I have applied for and keep applying for comes through and my baby is born without a father. If I stay, I keep being deceived and lied to over and over and over. I don't even know how to process all of this. I made him sign up for substance abuse treatment, but he is on a waiting list. I don't know what to do, I am lost, and afraid that all of this stress will hurt my baby.