Okay so i am 20 weeks 1 day pregnant and i love that i'm pregnant with my first baby, But me and my fiance all the way up to 19 weeks thoguht we were having a boy an that's what we really really wanted an i felt my fiance would be disappointed if we didnt have a boy. So we go to the ultrasound an the baby had her legs crossed an somewhat moved but she didn't open them all the way but the doctor said it looks like a girl. So my fiance was happy an has seemed happy an to my suprice i am the one thats disappointed an i hate myself for not being more excited i mean i am pushing myself to be excited an everyone else seems to be 100X more excited then me that i'm having a girl, when i keep telling myself that it's okay an to be happy but in the back of my mind i'm hoping the doctor was wrong and it really is a boy. I feel like a horrible mother an a horrible person an when i sit there and think about how i feel i can't help but sit there and cry, my fiance has no clue on how i feel about this, i mean i really really wanna boy but girls arnt a horrible thing i just dont know. i never wanted a girl. so i cant help but hope the doctor is wrong..uggh HELP PLEASE !!!!
Don't stress over the emotions you have right now. Give it time and start looking at girl things, girl names, etc.
Eventually, you will feel better and even start to get excited about having a girl.
It is normal to be upset and disappointed with the sex of your child at a gender scan. I try to remember that the baby is healthy and praying to get to 40 weeks and be healthy and happy with a decent labor. You will get past the gender eventually and come to love him just as much!
Maybe its im to stubborn but like i have her name picked out weve done the registry i have alot of clothes for her already i just dunno whats wrong with me i think i might need proffesional help cause i have a horrible thought in my head that ill look at her an be disapponted with her...like i dont like girls never really have and im stuck on praying that shes a boy an its driving me insane cause i dont wanna look at her like that i mean i love her an i love feeling her kick but i still cant help but prey its a boy an i feel like such a horrible person to ever think that about my baby
i feel you pain, you will love the child it may take awhile but at least the baby will be healthy
totally agree with this!!! It will be the most amazing moment!!
Quoting KatieGirls2:
When the time comes and you get to hold that baby in you're arms you won't care a bit momma. You will see that precious face, touch and count those ten tiny fingers and toes, and youwill be in love :)




- naebear
on Jun. 11, 2012 at 11:01 PM